I assist you to heal and awaken the love within, the dream that has always been there and the passion that will be there again for you body, your relationships and your life. Having faced my own inner turmoil and relationship struggles, I have discovered how to release my own fears and develop my own strategies to create and sustain love in my life. I approach you with an open heart, open mind and complete integrity. My goal and greatest joy is for YOU to find the love you are seeking and for ME to have the pleasure of assisting you.
I have worked with thousands of men, women, and couples (heterosexual and gay), helping and guiding them to discover their own unique passions, desires and capacities for healing and love. My unique method of somatic body psychotherapy (including the Rubenfeld Synergy Method, Polarity Therapy and Craniosacral Therapy) has been an intense catalyst for awareness, growth and change in all my clients.
As a syndicated columnist, my articles cover a wide variety of health and wellness issues, including sexuality, relationships, marriage, infidelity, healthy aging, and much more. My popular Love Me, Touch Me, Heal Me book series is also available at Amazon as books and Kindle books. And if you enjoy reading sexy romantic love stories, with a smattering of abuse to be overcome and hot sexuality, then please find my novel Love in the Blizzard of Life at Amazon.com. My seminars, intensive trainings and private sessions have moved people out of a place of stuckness, unhappiness and blaming others, into a broader perspective of love and forgiveness and readiness to follow their dreams.
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The Reason I Became A Helping Professional
My goal is to help you create the loving relationships you desire and to heal from whatever is causing you dis-ease. My work is the culmination of my own personal journey, my research, my collaboration with other professionals, my spiritual studies, my writing and over 25 years of training and practice with thousands of men and women. Experience has provided me with the wisdom, tools and insights to help you.
If you are ready to heal, if you really want to change what has not been working in your life, and if you truly desire to create the life of your dreams, I CAN HELP. I work best with men and women who are willing and ready to face their own life issues, to deeply examine and possibly make changes in their behaviors, attitudes and relationship patterns.
If you are willing to feel and express your emotions, to share and even write about your deepest fears, and to dream your biggest dreams with me, I CAN HELP YOU to create the life you may have never thought possible for you. Love is all around. If you're not feeling that way now, please let me help you open up to what is available for you.
RESULTS YOU CAN EXPECT
Singles find potential life partners and begin to enjoy the dating process.
Couples transform their interactions from distance and distain to affectionate words and actions. Those couples on the brink of separation or divorce reach a state of mutual agreement and have an opportunity to re-create the relationship or agree to dissolve it peacefully and with heartfelt love.
Men and women will learn amazing insights about love in my chapter "Awakening Love" in the book Adventures in Manifesting:Success and Spirituality, featuring Dr. Joe Vitale and Dr. Fred Alan Wolfe (from The Secret) and Brian Tracy along with 25 successful authors from around the globe.
Dr. Erica's Complete Relationship System, a hands on approach to healing your relationships, includes audios, webinars and my complete Love Me, Touch Me, Heal Me book series, plus much more. This program offers all the knowledge, skills and practices you will ever need to enable you to finally let go of old beliefs and emotional blocks as you develop your own unique capacity to create fulfilling and lasting love.
Harvey loves his wife of 15 years, Sandra, but somehow for ay least a year he had been avoiding sexual contact. His wife kept reaching out to him and he found himself making all sorts of excuses. Sometimes he would purposely stay at his office longer than needed so that he could get home late and complain that he had too much work to catch up on. At other times he would stay in his home office, glued to his computer, until he knew his wife had gone to bed. Sandra became increasingly upset, angry and then despondent. She was even toying with the idea of following up on a flirtation with someone she had met at the gym. Finally, she decided to seek outside help.
At first, it appeared as if this marriage had run its course and they would be headed for divorce. But after watching them together, I could see the emotional pain that each was experiencing and I had the sense they shared a true sense of love and compassion for each other. The problem was that Harvey had been afraid and embarrassed to tell his wife that something was not right with him physically. He was not waking up with erections and during the day he was rarely thinking about sex. Although he still found Sandra attractive, he had no apparent sexual desire - for her or for anyone else.
It actually took several sessions, seeing this couple together and then each one separately for their private history and individual bodymind healing session. When Harvey finally told Sandra what was really going on, the sense of relief in her entire body and demeanor was palpable. She was so relieved. That's when the healing began. Harvey scheduled appointments with both a urologist and an endorcrinologist, discovering that low testosterone was interfering with his sexual drive. Once his body chemistry improved and his sexual desire returned, I helped them sort through the many miscommunications and unexpressed emotions. Soon they were hugging and kissing and cuddling like newly weds. What a joy to watch them return to love.
Client was distraught about her recent discovery that her spouse had been unfaithful, but not just with one partner, with many. She feared that she may have contracted an STD. My goal was to help her regain a sense of her own well-being, to help her develop clarity about her situation, and to garner the strength to complete the divorce proceedings and move on without harboring resentment and emotional pain.
My unique method of somatic body psychotherapy, using the Rubenfeld Synergy Method of Talk and Touch along with Polarity and Craniosacral Therapy, assisted my client to feel and express her emotions, to acknowledge her deep hurt and intense fears, and to gradually feel and express the love that is in her heart for herself and also for her soon to be be ex-spouse.
John and Susan were childhood sweethearts, still loved each other deeply, but had fallen into a typical pattern of friendship and mutual caring without the spark of sexual desire and passion. John was seeking attention and contact with other women. Susan focused on caring for the children, working out at the local gym, and an occasional lunch date with a girlfriend to chat. Love is sometimes not enough to keep two people together when the passion and romance has dwindled. Fortunarly for Susan and John, they decided to do something about their current situation. In the first few sessions, as previously suppressed emotions came to the surface (anger, frustration, confusion, anxiety) the prognosis appeared almost hopeless. However, after that initial joint session, several individual sessions, and a few more joint sessions, the tone, the attitude changed. This couple, who had been sitting at opposite ends of the couch and looking away from each other, began to sit closer and closer, holding hands, smiling and obviously feeling that old sense of desire for each other. Both expressed how important it was for them to continue communicating, to set aside "dates" to enjoy being together, and to seek counseling again if they notice they are slipping back into living separate lives.
|Credentials||LMFT, LMHC, LPC, MA, MFT, NCC, Other, PhD|
|Time in Practice||25 years +|
|I practice in||Multiple states/provinces, please inquire|
Marriage and Family Therapist
Personal Development Coach
|I offer my services||At my office|
Via a webcam
|Licence information||Expiration 3/31/15|
Number MH 1738