How To Raise 'Colorblind' Kids In A Racist World

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Lead by example to raise open-minded children.

Kids notice differences in other people. They are not "colorblind" as some adults like to pretend, and thank God, since all of our many differences are such an important part of our individual and cultural identities. Kids recognize all kinds of differences — from height, to ability (or disability), to skin color and physical features.

And while it's perfectly natural for kids to notices racial differences, they do not naturally judge one set of characteristics as superior or preferred, until some adult teaches them to prefer certain characteristics. Yep, discrimination isn't natural; it's taught to our kids by the adults in their lives, including messages from the media. So, if you're child is starting to notice racial and ethnic differences, how do you talk to them about these differences? Let me give you some general guidelines.

Definitely talk to your kids about racism.  Kids notice differences but don't discriminate until later in development. The best way to combat that is to educate them about equality from very early on. Age two is not too early to start. 

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This article was originally published at http://www.drmattmorris.com/talking-to-your-kids-about-race/. Reprinted with permission from the author.

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