Attracting the Love of Your Life
By Dr Kelley Chappell. Posted on .
The Law of Attraction says that “Like Attracts Like”. Your own thoughts, feelings and actions create your relationship reality. Let me show you how to use the “Law of Attraction” to attract the man of your dreams .
Step 1: Develop Your Love Mindset
The first step to attracting the man of your dreams is to develop a “Love Mindset”. You have to believe in love, believe you are worthy of love and believe you deserve to be Happy in Love. The type of men you will attract when you are feeling low and negative are not the type men you will attract when you are feeling good about yourself. Do what it takes to feel good about yourself and to adopt positive beliefs about love and relationships.
Step # 2: Make a Relationship Intention List
Get completely clear about the kind of relationship that you want. Make a detailed list of all the qualities you want in a partner. Get very specific about how you and your partner will “fit” together. Don’t leave anything out. It is not about finding a man with “a sense of humor” it is about finding a man who shares your sense of humor. It is about how the two of you will fit together. Describe how the two of you will interact with each other and how the relationship will feel. You have got to be completely clear about what you want. If you want to get married and have children say this. If you want a partner who is free from major family responsibilities and wants to create a fresh new life with you, say so.
Here are some examples of specific items.
I am attracting a man who is a perfect “Fit” for me.
My perfect man is a man that wants love, connection and a positive, loving, exclusive, committed relationship with me.
My perfect man and I both have a positive, optimistic outlook on life.
We both feel that incredible chemistry for each other and maintain this with physical connection and physical affection.
We share a deep emotional bond. The connection is incredible. We are both willing to share our very real selves with each other.
We are compatible in every way. We have similarities, we get along well and we understand each other. We enjoy the same lifestyle and we love doing the same kinds of activities together.
My perfect man loves me with all of his heart and I feel the same way about him.
See how this is different from listing 10 vague qualities? Get real with yourself and ask for what you really want because you are going to get exactly what you expect to receive.

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