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What a good wife does for her husband


How do you determine what a good wife is? What exactly is a good wife to her husband,

How do you determine what a good wife is? What exactly is a good wife to her husband, you may be surprised to find out what it really means.

What a good wife does for her husband
This article is written for the women who are good wives and for the husbands that love and appreciate them for it. This is also written for those of us who are struggling in our marriage and need some answers.

What makes a good wife and what does a good wife do for her husband? Many husbands would like to know the answer to this question. We see those sweet older couples who have been married for 50 years that still hold hands, sneak in kisses and look at each other with love in their eyes, and the secret to their happiness is this ......
The woman chose the right man for her

I can repeat this line about fifty times and some women will just not get it. A woman must choose the right man for her. That is what a good wife does for her husband.

A man that she accepts for who he is, has passion for him, Is her best friend, she respects him as a man, and understands his values.

This is the right way to start off a great marriage together. All of these elements need to be in place, because if one is not then that is exactly what will be at the root of the problem in a marriage. So what a good wife does for her husband is to choose him well to begin with and here are the main ingredients of a happy marriage and notice I didn't put love in that category, we will get to that later.

When we look at these choices we can begin to look at our own marriage and find out some of the area's that need to be worked on.

The truth of the matter is that many of us are married to a spouse that we have problems with, some ot theses problems stem from the fact that we did not choose the right partner to begin with in all areas. Once we can find out which area is not working in the relationship we can begin to accept that part of our spouse and understand that we made a choice to marry them for who they are and begin to focus on the positive rather than the negative part of that person.

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This article was originally published at Squidoo. Reprinted with permission from the author.


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