3 Bold Ways To Find Love In 2015


Finding love is all about being bold. Here are 3 ways to make sure 2015 is full of love.

Alright, how many of you have already broken your New Years resolutions?

I'm sure everybody raised their hands. Let's face it, New Year's resolutions are a joke. They're great things to talk about, to self-motivate, or to make yourself feel good, but in reality they're not effective most of the time. The reason being, whatever good you're doing you still need to be able to do every single day.

I want this year to be bold. I want 2015 to be a bold year for all of you. I know right now you might be doing a cleanse. A friend of mine is doing an 11 day no alcohol cleanse. Great, but on day 12 he's still an alcoholic. I want you to be able to put something in your brain that's going to make your life bold. Bold is a four letter word.

So is love. And these four letter words are going to intertwine and meet all year.  Here are three bold ways to find love in 2015.

1.  Act on an attraction.

That's right. Act on an attraction. Let me give you a prime example. It was New Years day. A friend of mine was out with her friends. They were having a girl's night out, talking, having a good time when all of a sudden a guy sat down next to her on a date.  Or what appeared to be a date.

His date went to the bathroom. My friend started flirting with the guy, he started flirting with her.  The girl came back from the bathroom that he was with, and he still kept talking to her.

She had no idea what the relationship was between these two people. So she thought about my words, “Be bold.”

Be daring.  And realize love can happen in any way, shape, and any place. On the way out, my friend put her phone number in his hand. Later that night he texted her and said that was a bold move, using words that we're using.

“How do you know I wasn't on a date?”

She texted back, “I didn't, but I listen to this guy named David Wygant.  He told me to be bold in 2015, and I decided to take a risk.”

He texted back and said, “It actually wasn't a date. She was a friend of mine. She thought it was great, and now I am going to take you out.” 

Be bold. Be daring. Flip a phone number to a guy just for the sake of it. As a matter of fact, get used to the habit of slipping your phone number in with a cute little note. I don't know if you're on a date or not, but I thought you were cute. Be bold. Be daring.

2.  Don't get so caught up in a story.

In order to be bold and to find love in 2015 you need to literally start changing your story. You don't ever want to think, "What if?"

Cut loose your dead weight relationships. If you're in a relationship that's no longer working, you don't want to drag it on any further. You want to have a bold 2015. You want to be free. I strongly suggest you cut loose every dead end you have.

So in order to be bold and daring, and have an amazing year full of love, you need to get rid of relationships that no longer suit you. They aren't going to work out. So if you're dating somebody right now and it's not working, it's time to start 2015 with a clear slate. 

Be bold, be daring. Tell them how you feel. Tell them what you need in a relationship, and if they don't respond, walk away.

3. Don't be afraid to tell a man what your needs, wants and desires are.

If you're with somebody, and that person doesn't resonate with you, or they’re not understanding you, then don't waste time. I want you to feel bold, daring, and feel a spark with the man you're with. 

If a man says something that doesn't resonate, or doesn't make sense to you, I want you to be bold and daring and ask him to clarify.

I want you to stop wasting time on men that don't deserve you. You're an amazing, beautiful woman. I've never met you before, but I already know that because you're reading this article, and you want to join me in having a bold and daring, amazing 2015.


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