The ABCs of a Legendary Love For Life™


Are These 26 Traits On Your Relationship Bucket List?

I get asked all the time about the name of my business, Legendary Love For Life and what qualifies a love as legendary. With that question in mind, I’ve developed an alphabetical list of 26 key attributes that can transform the lives of you AND your partner. My suggestion is to think of this as a list of traits you may want to have on your Relationship Bucket List and make it your goal to check off every item on the list.  I can assure you...once you experience all 26 of them simultaneously, you’ll know exactly what a Legendary Love looks and feels like.

Every human being needs to be seen, heard and appreciated – and not just when all is well. If you can offer that even when they fall short somehow, you’ll be well on your way to legendary status.

Best Friends
The most beautiful gift on this journey is a partner who just “gets you” and never loses sight of your greatness...especially in those moments when you, yourself,  may be overlooking it.

If you can vulnerably speak your truth with compassion, honesty and grace  – while hearing your partner also – you should be able to resolve any issue. Where there is a will, there is a way.

Your connection to your partner starts with a decision and a willing commitment to do whatever it takes to keep your relationship fresh, thriving and growing on the direction of your dreams.

Whether you’re jointly celebrating your victories...or you could occasionally just use a reminder that your partner believes in you, a well-placed and well-timed positive word goes a long way.

In any relationship, there will be occasional disagreements or disappointments that need to be addressed. Resentment and resistance can be cancerous when left unresolved.

It really is the great game-changer when it comes to crafting a life of abundance and blessings. Where focus goes energy flows...

When you uphold your commitments and live in alignment with your deepest values and beliefs, you will sleep soundly with a peace and satisfaction that many others will never know.

It’s not just about physical acts. A true soul connection also occurs when two hearts become one mind or when two voices speak as one.

Too often we get caught up in the daily dramas and life becomes more about obligation rather than celebration. A Legendary Love focuses on gratitude and blessings.

There will always be disagreements in any relationship but a thoughtful spirit and a kind heart will go a long way in creating resolution rather than resentment.

Love & Laughter
It may be an oversimplification but partners that laugh together, stay together. That’s because a light-hearted approach helps balance out the more serious issues that come along.

Magic Moments
Together, you will both create and share many wonderful experiences on your journey together from the simple, random moments of bliss to life’s more memorable milestones. Treasure them.

It’s the small daily acts of service and thoughtful gestures that keep love alive for a lifetime and the key is understanding what your partner values most...and making that your love offering.

Open Hearts
When hearts remain open, committed and forgiving, you will overcome any obstacles that occur along the way. A closed heart is just as painful for both partners because it destroys possibility.

This lifetime is far too short to play small. Blessed are those who discover, live and develop their passion in life and for each other. May you live life to the fullest and leave a lasting legacy.

Quality Time
Good intentions just aren’t enough. It really comes down to scheduling what’s most important and harnessing the power of Rituals for daily one-on-one connections and activities.

If your partner loved you better than you’ve ever been loved, you’d do pretty much anything for them, right? THAT is the power of the LAW of Reciprocation...and it works.

A successful partnership is about Loyalty and trusting that your partner is there for you in good times and challenging times, too. Double the joy. Divide the pain.

Trust is a bedrock value because you can’t build anything lasting on a weak foundation. You must know that your partner has your back and keeps your best interests in mind in order to thrive.

There will undoubtedly be moments of disagreement. If you never have to question your partner’s intent or prefer being right rather than in love, you will resolve most any issue.

Too often people confuse vulnerability with weakness and that couldn’t be further from the truth.  Vulnerability is the ultimate strength and if you think it’s easy, you’ve never tried it.

Over a period of time, you both will learn and grow so in order to stay on the same page, it’s important to stay open in heart and mind and welcoming in spirit.

In life, there are two conditions. You are either expressed – or you are repressed. As long as you keep talking, you can resolve anything if you’re committed. Once you repress, trouble is lurking.

The first part of a healthy, fulfilling relationship starts with desire. It’s not just a desire for physical connection; it’s also a yearning to have, do and be more. Long may you yearn.

Zero Regrets
When you follow and practice all these suggestions, there’s a very good chance that you’ll truly have no regrets whatsoever because you understand the art and science of fulfillment.

If this list resonates with you and provides you value, I invite you to visit my site at and let's get acquainted. Whether you want to find, craft or rekindle a love that is Legendary, I am here to support you on that journey.


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