This is the REAL way to a man's heart.
We all love to be complimented.
By the way, you look stunning today!
(See? How’d that feel?)
Compliments are a powerful component of any relationship — especially a romantic one. Learning how to give compliments for men isn’t always a cut and dry process, but it’s a strategy well worth mastering.
Why compliments matter:
In today’s day and age, everybody is taught to feel less-than.
From posts on Facebook that turn the mundane into the mind-blowing to the media filling our brains with subconscious thoughts, we need something that makes us feel good just because it does.
If you have your eye on a guy you are hoping will fall in love with you, that something to make him feel good is yourself.
Obviously, telling a man he has nice muscles or that you could hardly even tell it was a toupee isn’t a guarantee to he'll eventually commit to a relationship with you.
Real compliments are more than empty words. They’re about connection, support, encouragement, and understanding.
In fact, a woman who wants to learn what makes a man commit and open his heart to her will benefit from learning to give compliments not as a way to give lip service, but as a way to allow that man to access the deepest parts of himself, helping him ultimately feel more confident and integrated as a whole.
Of course, it’s not all about him. It’s about you, too.
If you're ready to learn how to give meaningful compliments for men, check out these 5 examples of what works:
1. "I love the way you think."
Many men are thinkers (and, believe it or not, about more than just who to start this week in Fantasy Football).
When you compliment a man’s mind, you allow him to feel seen for a part of himself he secretly takes pride in. It has nothing to do with the car he drives or the amount he makes or the dimples on his cheek.
It touches his intellectual side — and men like getting touched there.
2. "The way you make decisions turns me on."
Using this compliment is a great way to make him want you, but it’s not for everyone.
A take charge kind of guy might not fall head over heels if you fake an orgasm every time he renews a magazine subscription.
But for guys who have trouble taking the reins, it’s a great compliment to use.
3. "I love watching you."
Not a good compliment to use on an ex with a six-foot fence, but in a relationship, this is a playful gesture. It’s also all-encompassing.
You can tell a man you love watching him cook or mow the lawn or play baseball.
This compliment tells your guy he impresses you — even when he’s not trying.
4. "You make me feel so safe because ..."
If you want to know how to make a man fall for you, letting them know you feel safe in their arms is a huge step. It’s a way to give someone several compliments for the price of one.
By expressing that you feel safe, you also express your belief that he is trustworthy, strong, responsible, wise, and respected.
5. "You inspire me."
The final compliment to give to make him want you is one of the most solid praises you can ever give anyone: a nod to inspiration.
Every man wants to act the hero in his own story, and this compliment allows that story to take shape.
So, the next time he does something that inspires you — through his work, through his actions, through his willingness to act out of his comfort zone — let him know you noticed.
And let him know you’re impressed. Big time.