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The #1 Tell-Tale Sign For The Right Guy: His Smile

Date a man who smiles. Date a man who spends his time on improving himself emotionally as well as physically. He might have issues with time, because he has an unquenchable thirst for living and for life. Date a man who has a list of things he wants to ...

Why Straight Men Don't Want To Believe Jason Collins Is Gay

Unless you've been completely offline, Sports Illustrated broke the news that NBA center Jason Collins is making history as the first openly Read More

10 Tell-Tale Signs That He's Cheating

He's acting ... differently, but you just can't put your finger on why. Then, his cell phone rings in in the middle of the night ... and he doesn't have a good explanation. Is he cheating or is he just going through a rough time? We've all ...

What to do about a stalker ex

You meet someone. You fall for them. A relationship ensues. Then... something happens. Maybe one outgrows the other. Maybe a difference of life goals. Maybe the passion waned and it was just time to call it quits before either (or both) were disappointed in the long run. Whatever the case, it resulted in a ...

Why Women Get Played By The Men They Date

Women who get played by men aren't "dumb" or "inexperienced". Smart women get played all the time … and not because the guy is bright or smooth, but because his bullsh*t story has enough tangible possibility for it to be believable. Moreover, these "Read More

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That's been the most rewarding part of this experience. My investigation—whether you agree with it or not—is only a piece. The really interesting thing has been monitoring this discussion. Fascinating thoughts (with some jumping to wild conclusions, to be sure.. but fascinating, nonetheless). :) And thank you for your thoughts and involvement!

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Precisely. Thank you for reading the *entire* article and data (which I sourced). :)

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"Patience and Restraint" — Sage advice. :) Very glad you and your wife were able to work through things. A rough road; I don't not envy the personal work you did, nor the joint work you both put in. Kudos to you both. :) Best to you... and thank you!

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Hi Dew. I can appreciate your comments and personal story. My "overconfidence" notwithstanding, I would humbly suggest that perhaps your personal experience has jaded your view... slightly? Is what you are describing possible? Sure... this wasn't a scientific study by any stretch of the imagination. I was looking for raw, real-world experiences and "data" (as close to data as possible). Could they have been playing me and lying to me? That is a possibility... I was lying to them, as well. Could these women have the same addictive behavior as your wife? I suppose that's possible, but no one would have any way of knowing that without some serious time spent IN the relationship (as you called out, it was a year of therapy for her to come to grips with her involvement and accountability — and for your experiences, my heart goes out to you both). My suggestion is to take my findings for what they are worth... and not see this article as a be all, end all of ALL the why's ALL women cheat. This was my experience with 30+ chat sessions and three in-person dates, coupled with my experiences with my wife and a formal poll of 250 women after the fact. And while it isn't conclusive for ALL women, ALL marriages, ALL situations, ALL cheaters... it does provide some keen insights into the why's for many (at least, that's been the feedback from hundreds of people). :) Also, it wasn't my intention to come across as arrogant or overconfident... not at all... and if that how you (or others) took my writing, I would ask you for a leap of faith on that. :) Writing is subjective, and open to the interpretation of the reader... but it wasn't intentional.

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Articles by Charles Orlando

The #1 Tell-Tale Sign For The Right Guy: His Smile

Date a guy with a good smile, and you'll be smiling, too! All the reasons a grin tells everything.

Why Straight Men Don't Want To Believe Jason Collins Is Gay

By coming out on the court, NBA player Jason Collins challenges what straight guys consider a 'man.'

10 Tell-Tale Signs That He's Cheating

Fifty cheating men — and their wives/ex-wives — give the scoop on what got them busted.

What to do about a stalker ex

You meet someone. You fall for them. A relationship ensues. Then... something happens. Maybe ...

Why Women Get Played By The Men They Date

Learn why women let these men destroy their self-esteem.

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/the problem with women is men Volume 2: A Social Media Memoir

On the heels of his internationally acclaimed ...

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The Problem with Women... is Men: The Evolution of a Man's Man to a Man of Higher Consciousness

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Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues, Empowering Women, Infidelity / Affair Recovery, Self-Esteem