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Website: www.theproblemismen.com/

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Why Men & Women Cheat [EXPERT]

The age-old question: What makes a person in a marriage or committed relationship cheat? Despite recent articles that suggest that there is a cheating gene ingrained into the DNA of some men (Really? *rolls eyes*), the real answer depends on whether you’re talking about a woman or a man. Several credible ...

Boomerang Men: Why Exes Come Running Back [EXPERT]

To ask Charles your love and relationship questions, join him on Facebook Thursday 3/8 at 2pm eastern! Boomerang: (noun) A curved piece of wood when properly thrown will return to thrower. Boomerang Man: Annoying; a man that a woman has stopped being ...

Why Women Cheat: A Married Man Goes Undercover On Ashley Madison

"Honey, I have to join Ashley Madison." So began the pitch I gave my wife to let me join the marrieds-looking-for-affairs website, AshleyMadison.com. It would be part of my research into women who cheat, why infidelity is increasing, and what can be done to possibly affair-proof a marriage. I ...

Relationship Kryptonite: The Saturday Guy

Most men, in an effort to show their best side and woo a love interest—go above and beyond in their efforts to listen, please, and participate. In the beginning, there are literally no-holds-barred when it comes to romance, cash, and availability. But once they have put in the initial effort and their ...

Nice Guys vs. Bad Boys - The Battle Continues

The quintessential Bad Boy has THE reputation: mysterious, good looking, scruffy, built... and women flock to them. Bad Boys are the reasons that shows like True Blood and books/movies like Twilight have been so popular. With all the perceived negatives about Bad Boys—cocky, arrogant, inconsiderate, ...

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That's been the most rewarding part of this experience. My investigation—whether you agree with it or not—is only a piece. The really interesting thing has been monitoring this discussion. Fascinating thoughts (with some jumping to wild conclusions, to be sure.. but fascinating, nonetheless). :) And thank you for your thoughts and involvement!

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Precisely. Thank you for reading the *entire* article and data (which I sourced). :)

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"Patience and Restraint" — Sage advice. :) Very glad you and your wife were able to work through things. A rough road; I don't not envy the personal work you did, nor the joint work you both put in. Kudos to you both. :) Best to you... and thank you!

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Hi Dew. I can appreciate your comments and personal story. My "overconfidence" notwithstanding, I would humbly suggest that perhaps your personal experience has jaded your view... slightly? Is what you are describing possible? Sure... this wasn't a scientific study by any stretch of the imagination. I was looking for raw, real-world experiences and "data" (as close to data as possible). Could they have been playing me and lying to me? That is a possibility... I was lying to them, as well. Could these women have the same addictive behavior as your wife? I suppose that's possible, but no one would have any way of knowing that without some serious time spent IN the relationship (as you called out, it was a year of therapy for her to come to grips with her involvement and accountability — and for your experiences, my heart goes out to you both). My suggestion is to take my findings for what they are worth... and not see this article as a be all, end all of ALL the why's ALL women cheat. This was my experience with 30+ chat sessions and three in-person dates, coupled with my experiences with my wife and a formal poll of 250 women after the fact. And while it isn't conclusive for ALL women, ALL marriages, ALL situations, ALL cheaters... it does provide some keen insights into the why's for many (at least, that's been the feedback from hundreds of people). :) Also, it wasn't my intention to come across as arrogant or overconfident... not at all... and if that how you (or others) took my writing, I would ask you for a leap of faith on that. :) Writing is subjective, and open to the interpretation of the reader... but it wasn't intentional.

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Articles by Charles Orlando

Why Men & Women Cheat [EXPERT]

The age-old question: What makes a person in a marriage or committed relationship cheat? ...

Boomerang Men: Why Exes Come Running Back [EXPERT]

After a breakup, why do men try to come back for a second chance?

Why Women Cheat: A Married Man Goes Undercover On Ashley Madison

A married relationship expert joins Ashley Madison and learns a valuable love lesson.

Relationship Kryptonite: The Saturday Guy

Most men, in an effort to show their best side and woo a love interest—go above and ...

Nice Guys vs. Bad Boys - The Battle Continues

Are Nice Guys too nice? Bad Boys totally closed off emotionally? The dilemma explored...

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