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Dr. Jamie Turndorf (aka Dr. Love), Relationship Coach

Dr.  Jamie Turndorf (aka Dr. Love) - Relationship Coach, Author, Business Coach, Career Coach, Counselor/Therapist, Dating Coach, Divorce Coach, Divorce Recovery Coach, Family Coach, Health Coach, Life Coach, Marriage and Family Therapist, Marriage Educator, Marriage/Couples Counselor, Mentor, Personal Development Coach, Sex Coach, Sex Educator, Speaker/Presenter, Spiritual Coach, Spiritual Healer, Wellness Coach, YourTango Expert Partner - Millbrook, NY

Relationship Coach

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Call Me 845-677-3450
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I Believe

The walls that we erect in an effort to self-protect merely lock us in a jail without any hope of making bail.

Authenticity is the key that sets us free.

About Me


I'm known to millions as “Dr. Love” through my website — the web's first and immensely popular relationship advice site since 1995.

Actually, I've been delighting readers and audiences for three decades with my engaging blend of professional expertise, spicy humor and ability to turn psychobabble into easy-to-understand concepts that transform lives and heal relationships.

My methods have been featured on all the national networks, including CNN (who recently dubbed me their "Resident Love Doctor!") NBC, CBS, VH1, Fox, on websites like WebMD, iVillage,,, and in Cosmopolitan, Men's Health, Glamour, American Woman, Modern Bride, and Marie Claire, to name only a few. I also write a column called “We Can Work it Out” for Psychology Today online.

My “Ask Dr. Love”radio show can be heard in Seattle on KKNW and on, which broadcasts in 80 countries worldwide.

I am the author of the new Hay House book, Kiss Your Fights Good-bye: Dr. Love's 10 Simple Steps to Cooling Conflict and Rekindling Your Relationship, which has been endorsed by #1 NY Times New York Times bestselling authors Jack Canfield, Dr. John Gray, John Bradshaw and Harvard professor of psychiatry, Dr. John Mack.

I have also authored, Till Death Do Us Part (Unless I Kill You First): A Step-by-Step Guide for Resolving Relationship Conflict; Make Up Don't Break Up: Dr. Love's Five-Step Plan for Reconciling with Your Ex; and Dr. Love's Couples' Guide to Surviving the Jolly Hollerdays, as well as the foreword to The Complete Idiot's Guide to Affair Proof Love and co-authored The Pleasure of Your Company: A Socio-Psychological Analysis of Modern Sociability (with Emile Jean Pin).

Since the recent death of Emile Jean Pin, my beloved husband of 27 years, I have discovered that relationships do not end in death. His miraculous manifestations, often in front of witnesses, have proven that there is life after life. My experiences with him have led me to develop a groundbreaking form of grief therapy that diverges from the traditional Western approach (grieve, let go and move on). By contrast, my method guides people to reconnect and, if needed, make peace with the deceased--bringing my acclaimed conflict resolution method to the world of after death communication (ADC). My story and new grief therapy method will be presented in my next Hay House book Love Never Dies: How to Reconnect and Make Peace with the Deceased, which will be published by Hay House in August 2014.

If you're ready to create a lifetime of lasting love, I'm here to guide you every step of the way!

Dr. Jamie Turndorf

The Reason I Became A Helping Professional

I was born 3 months early and remained alone in the preemie nursery for the next 3 months of my life. I've been told that my calling was born out of my own pain and the desire to help others avoid the agony of isolation and disconnection.

In my first family, pain continued for me, as fighting was the norm. From my earliest days on earth, I acted as in-house mediator. While still in diapers, I swear I'd already earned my Ph.D (more like pee h.D!) in mediation and conflict resolution!

But seriously, I did, indeed, go on to earn my Ph.D. in psychology. Soon afterwards, I created my Center for Emotional Communication where for the past 30 years I've been conducting observational research and perfecting my life changing relationship advice methods with real people.

At, I've been sharing my cutting edge research and methods, for free, for the past 19 years. My methods have literally helped millions of people create lasting love. (Don't believe me. Just read all the unsolicited testimonials.)

Just so you know, I'm not some ivory tower doctor who doesn't walk the walk. I was married and passionately in love with my husband for nearly 30 years until he died of a bee sting eight years ago. Our bond was so strong that our relationship didn't end in death. You can read more about my spiritual experiences with him on my grief therapy page at, which is accessed by the contact drop down menu. My story with my husband in spirit form will soon be released by Hay House under the title Love Never Dies: How to Reconnect and Make Peace with the Deceased.

You should also know that my methods create loving relationships with friends, family members and also yourself.

If you want to transform conflict into connection and turn any relationship into an overflowing oasis of love, read my latest Hay House book Kiss Your Fights Good-bye: Dr. Love's 10 Simple Steps to Cooling Conflict and Rekindling Your Relationship. My book is endorsed by #1 NY Times Bestselling authors Jack Canfield (Chicken Soup for the Soul book empiret), John Gray (Men are From Mars Women are from Venus), John Bradshaw (Homecoming), and Harvard Professor of Psychiatry, John Mack, MD.

If you've already separated or have begun the divorce process, Make Up Don't Break Up: Dr. Love's Five-Step Plan For Reconciling with Your Ex will guide you to bring your relationship back from the brink. My proven make-up method is down-to-earth and easy to follow and will put you on the road to reconciliation right away.

I am excited to help you create abundance in life and love!

Dr. Jamie Turndorf

Time in Practice25 years +
Additional ExpertiseAuthor
Business Coach
Career Coach
Dating Coach
Divorce Coach
Divorce Recovery Coach
Family Coach
Health Coach
Life Coach
Marriage and Family Therapist
Marriage Educator
Marriage/Couples Counselor
Personal Development Coach
Sex Coach
Sex Educator
Spiritual Coach
Spiritual Healer
Wellness Coach
YourTango Expert Partner
I offer my servicesAt my office
By Email
Via Skype
Other, please inquire
I am fluent inEnglish
Licence informationExpiration 6/30/14
Number R030731-1
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Love Never Dies: How to Reconnect and Make Peace with the Deceased

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Kiss Your Fights Good-bye: Dr. Love’s 10 Simple Steps to Cooling Conflict and Rekindling Your Relationship

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Make Up Don't Break Up: Dr. Love's 5-Step Plan for Reconciling with Your Ex

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