Attention Men: 8 Types Of Women You NEED To Avoid Dating


Men, beware!

I am going to go out on a limb and state that many, if not most men date for intimacy. Most men, especially when they reach a certain stage in their life, are looking for that "special someone" to get romantically involved with, who will hopefully be that potential mate for life. 

Gentlemen, if you are one of those men who are looking for "the one" to settle down with, and create a future and life together, lookout for these 8 types of women you may want to avoid pursuing a relationship with. Doing so, will most likely result in an exercise in frustration and disappointment.

While in the dating game, here are some signs to watch out for:

1. The Overly Feminist

This type of woman assumes and believes man is the cause of all the pains and suffering of a society. It is her strong belief that women are much more intelligent than men, and are capable of doing things "the correct way."

Men, be careful with these types of women, because anything that you will attempt to do, no matter how well-intentioned and thoughtful, will always be negative to them. They can never be pleased by a man.

2. The Material Girl

She is just after the money! These types of women are "high maintenance". They not just expect, but often demand that a man should finance all her luxuries in life. To her, the man's responsible for paying for dinners, drinks, trips, jewelry, flowers etc. while she absolutely feels compulsion or guilt to reciprocate. 

I know that this might sound harsh and offensive, but these types of women are just greedy, having no perception of the feelings of others and her only concern is achieving and obtaining things that she wants. Never be fooled; some appear really nice at first, until they know that you would do anything for them. Then the asking for material things starts!

3. The Hopeless Romantic

These women live inside a perfect world of romance in novels, where love and relationships are perfect and her night and shining armor will always come and they will live happily ever after. 

In one way or another, these women have always been pampered, and considered a "princess," by the men in her life, thus they have no idea that what real life is. She will expect the man to take care of her constantly and that all her wishes be granted; if not, she'll turn into screaming nag. 

4. The Angry Girl

Similar to the feminist, she actually hates men. They often look down on men accounting a long list of all the injustice and transgressions of every guy that they shared a relationship with.

To her, all men are "creeps", "pigs." and jerks. These women have boiling rage at men that can, at any given moment explode.

5. The Insecure Miss

They will seem very pleasant, loving, and accommodating at first, treating men very well. Later, when all her innermost insecurities go up the surface, she'll annoyingly call the man she is dating at least ten times a day, asking where you are, or that she just missed your voice. 

This woman demands frequent and persistent reassurance that you love her and you find her attractive; because of this insecurity, she worries continuously about her hair, make up, clothes etc.

She'll be clingy, needing constant attention and insistently torments you with her thoughts that you will leave her soon if you find someone better. 

6. The Abstract Or Elusive Type

She is romantic but with a mysteriously dark side. She has been hurt in past relationships and has not the necessary personal work to heal, and move forward. These bad experiences drive her to subconsciously remain very emotionally unavailable, damage any potential new relationship. 

She will be very frustrating to deal with, as at first, she will show a lot of interest with the man, but then runs away very quickly; she will repeat this cycle again and again. She will date and flirt with the man, but will insist that they both remain as friends. 

7. The Desperate Miss

She is desperate to get married. She does not even choose to know the man; she just wants to trap him and bring him to the nearest altar!

8. The Controlling Type

She's very nasty in a very subtle way, but when the opportunity arises, will direct each phase of a man's life. She will always have a "say" as to what the man wears, where a man must go, who a man should talk to, who a man can have as friends, what a man can and cannot eat; basically controlling everything!

The man cannot insist on his own rights or else, there will be no sex, a lot of crying, screaming, pouting and everything just so the man will give in.

Ladies, I know that what I just wrote might be some inconvenient and difficult truth to acknowledge, but think long and hard about who it is that you are presenting in this world. Be very aware of the perceptions of yourself that you are creating.

If any of these characteristics that I just described could be applied to you, then I suggest you be humble, acknowledge your growth areas, and engage in some personal work on yourself. It might be difficult now to face these realities, but if you do, you just might end up thanking me later.

Gentlemen, consider yourselves warned, and BE CAREFUL!!


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