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The Spiritual Significance Of Christmas

The Spiritual Significance Of Christmas

New Light There is an esoteric view that, at times, humanity in this world overstep the acceptable threshold of goodness into negativity and depravity which are unacceptable to the fulfillment of the world’s destiny. When this occurs, the Universal Creative Principle forms an embodiment that balances the negative runaway energy.

Learning to Love the Unlovable

Learning to Love the Unlovable

Many people have bought into the myth that there is someone out there who will serve as their "better half." This paradigm presumes that we are incomplete and require a partner to make us whole, and it feeds into the "hole in the soul syndrome"  a core sense of insufficiency leading to feelings of emptiness, neediness, and self reproach. Because of these feelings, we look for a partner to fill in the holes.

Unconditional Love Starts with Loving Yourself

Unconditional Love Starts with Loving Yourself

The relationship you have with yourself is the central relationship in your life. At the heart of all the elements that make up your life experience  family, friends, love relationships, work  is you. This is why an audiobook about the rules of love begins with a rule not about relationships with others, but rather about the relationship you have with yourself. The quality of the relationship between you and your self is paramount, for all

How To Blend Family Rituals This Holiday Season

How To Blend Family Rituals This Holiday Season

Holidays are typically our favorite time of year when we get time off, extra holiday pay, and time spent with close family. This can be a very special time of year but very stressful as well. If you're in a new relationship or you've recently married, you may be experiencing your first holiday with your new family. This can create conflict if your family traditions or rituals conflict with that of your new mate's family, especially if it involves blending together families with chidlren.

7 Ways To Reduce Holiday Stress For Highly Sensitive People

7 Ways To Reduce Holiday Stress For Highly Sensitive People

The holidays can be a stressful time for many people. For highly sensitive people the festive season can be especially challenging. In order to minimize overstimulation and exhaustion, highly sensitive people need a different strategy. Highly sensitive people are easily overwhelmed by the frenzy of the holiday season. The spirit of the season and their own generous spirits can easily result in HSP’s becoming overcommitted and overworked.  Here are 7 ways to make the holiday season more pleasurable without making your own life miserable:

Are You A Highly Sensitive Person Or In A Relationship With One?

Are You A Highly Sensitive Person Or In A Relationship With One?

Do you like to be alone? Do you feel overwhelmed in large groups of people? Do you need downtime to recharge aafter being around other people including those you love? If you do you may be a highly sensitive person. Highly sensitive people (HSP) intuitively recognize at a young age that they are different. They don't fit in and are often made to feel that there is something wrong with them because they are different.

Happy Winter Solstice TOMORROW... Astrology Tip Of The Week

Happy Winter Solstice TOMORROW... Astrology Tip Of The Week

   I don't know about you, but I'm bundled up good.    Seriously, I look like a crazy bag lady or something. I'm wearing the works - hat, scarf, sweater, leggings, thick socks with long underwear - layers galore.    I've got the heater blasting, and all my pets (my dog and two cats) are lying on heating pads in their little pet beds.    (They LOVE these, by the way - just be sure to keep them set on "low" so you don't B.B.Q. Fluffy and Rover...)

Humility or Disguised Vanity?

Humility or Disguised Vanity?

“People have enormous fear to recognize their own quality. They are ashamed by the prospect of showing their skills, to assume their own talents. It is the confusion between humility and modesty. Some think that modesty is a virtue. Culturally they learn it is not noble to assume their own qualities. It is appropriate to be discreet, deny, not being involved with praise. If someone questions about the success of any enterprise, the ideal is to change the subject. After all, to be well accepted it is important not to draw attention.

When Should I Have Sex With Him?

When Should I Have Sex With Him?

There's no greater feeling than meeting a guy and feeling the kind of chemistry that tears your clothes off. The body wants what the body wants and who doesn't want to feel good, it's exciting to ride the feeling. The question is are you looking to build something with someone or are you hooking up? There's no right or wrong answer the difference is; for a man having intercourse with you right away will get in the way of him knowing you as a human being.