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To Parent or Not!

To Parent or Not!

In the late 70’s my wife and I wrote TO PARENT OR NOT. At the time the impetus came from an Ann Landers column in which she reported that 70% of over 10,000 people had written her stating that they wished they had never had children! From the beginning of our marriage, we had agreed that we would wait a year after we were married before we initiated the potential for having a child. During that year and the subsequent 51 years we never regretted our decision to have our 3 children, each of whom was a positive and planned experience.

2 Mistakes You Are Making Describing Ideal Partner

2 Mistakes You Are Making Describing Ideal Partner

Jasbina asks Neely Steinberg – Author of the book ‘Skin in the Game: Unleashing Your Inner Entrepreneur to Find Love’:  You mention two pitfalls in creating an affinity list. Can you share with our listeners what you mean by that in terms of too specific or too vague? Neely Steinberg Sometimes when I work with women and we start creating this affinity list, they will get micro-specific. They might say, “I want a man who makes over $100,000.”

How To Spice Up Your Love Life On Halloween's Day

How To Spice Up Your Love Life On Halloween's Day

1. Sexy Halloween costumes You can find many interesting costumes for Halloween's day. You can choose from a lot of different stuff. The best day for making excuse to be sexy! 2. Trick or treat Let your man treat you and you show him a trick. 3. Candy treats There's nothing sweeter that delightful Halloween candies. Go for it! 4. Spiced pumpkins

Why I Predict that Taylor Swift Will Fall in Love Soon

Why I Predict that Taylor Swift Will Fall in Love Soon

When I heard the news that Taylor Swift—aka the Queen of Relationships—revealed to Cosmopolitan UK that she’s done with the whole boyfriend thing, I had to re-read it again and again. This is, after all, the singer who writes songs about ex-boyfriends as often as she brushes her teeth or cleans her cat. You get the picture.

What if there is a Soulmate Switch and yours is turned off?!?

What if there is a Soulmate Switch and yours is turned off?!?

When I met Tina (name changed) she had me rolling with horrible and hilarious dating stories from her over 50 online dates over the last 14 months.  Out of that string of hopefuls, only a handful got a second date.  Where are the guys they show on the commercials?? Do you hate online dating?  I am not such a fan either because the men who show up don't match their pictures or profiles, just sayin'.  How about hanging out in bars, clubs, gyms and even churches...I bet a part of you is tired of the chase.

Single Boomer Women Want More Than Sex

Single Boomer Women Want More Than Sex

Dubious Distinction Newly single boomer guys have earned the dubious distinction of being difficult to date. And it’s boomer men’s anachronistic dating behavior that makes them challenging. Many seem to feel that dating behavior that was acceptable in the 60s or 70s, the last time many of these men were single, still works. Since boomers now have the highest rate of divorce, there's a rapidly growing numbers of new, single boomer men.

3 Tips To Break A Bad Dating Pattern

3 Tips To Break A Bad Dating Pattern

Most everyone in the dating world readily admits that they have a type. Men might admit to liking blondes or girls who are tomboys; women might admit to liking men who are built or unforgivingly ambitious. While most people are fine showcasing the exterior of their type to anyone who asks – I’ll only go for guys who make me laugh – they don’t showcase (or perhaps even notice) the inner demons of their type – I’ll only go for guys who make me cry.