How You React To Discovering He Cheated (According To Your Zodiac Sign)

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How Each Zodiac Sign Reacts When They Find Out Their Partner Has Been Cheating
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Hell hath no fury like an Aries woman scorned...

Cheating is one of the MOST touchy subjects surrounding relationships. Not only is it tough to talk about, but it can be even more difficult to define, let alone to understand if you are the one who's being cheated on.

There are people who believe a man or woman will only cheat if they aren't happy or in love with their current partner.

The thinking goes that if he or she were truly in love, the two of you could have just talked through their thoughts about cheated and prevented it before it happened.

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Or, if they really loved you or even cared about your feelings, couldn't they have broken up with you with before they became involved with someone else? That probably would've hurt less, right?

And of course, not everyone agrees about what counts as infidelity.

  • Some people believe that even becoming emotionally involved with another person is a betrayal.
  • Others think that a simple kiss is the point at which involvement with someone else becomes adultery.
  • For others, anything goes until the point you have sex with someone other than your partner.

Given that not everyone agrees on one single definition and too many couples avoid having a direct discussion to define what counts as an affair to each person, it can be confusing and complicated to clearly identify if the person you are with has crossed any lines in the sand.

And in the same way that there is no one clear definition of what makes someone a cheater, there is no one uniform way any of us can expect someone to deal with or react to finding out for sure that they are being cheated on.

People who discover that they are on the sh*tty end of being betrayed can experience a wide range of emotions.

Some will scream. Some will cuss their partner out and call them names. Some will tear up or delete every last one of their photos.

There's not much that will be totally off-limits, as there's really no right or wrong way to react to being hurt (as long you don't hurt someone else or commit any criminal offenses, of course).

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Then there's the issue of deciding whether or not the cheater deserves a second chance.

Taking someone back might mean giving them the chance just to hurt you again. They already messed up BIG time.

Should that just be the end of it?

There are those who feel strongly that just because someone committed one indiscretion, there's no good reason to throw away an entire relationship full of memories and experiences. They believe the life you have built together isn't something to discard because of something as small as a kiss or a one-night stand he swears was the worst mistake of his life and that one that he will never make again.

No one can tell you how you should feel or what actions you should take after the person you thought was the love of your life cheats on you.

There are some emotions you will need just need to feel after a betrayal like this.

But in the end, your astrological sign determines how you will react and what you will do will do once you find out the bad news.

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Some zodiac signs will end the relationship right then and there, while others will be willing to hear their partner out and give the relationship a second chance.

Almost everyone will cry no matter what their sun signs may be, and that is a completely reasonable thing to expect. In fact, all of the reactions detailed below are entirely normal!

Read on to find out exactly what you can expect yourself to do when you find out you've been cheated on, according to your zodiac sign (although we hope you never have to experience this yourself!):

Aries (March 21- April 19)

Aries is known for wanting to come out on top, so if someone cheats on her, don’t expect her to be calm. Not only will she be mad that someone pulled one over on her, but how dare they think there's anyone out there better than her! She will be the one walking away victorious once all is said and done, though. Remember, Aries is not opposed to revenge.

And yes, the two of you are over. No doubt about it.

READ: Everything You Need To Know About Aries Zodiac Sign (+ Daily Love Horoscopes!)

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

Taurus might tell you that she forgives you, but trust us when we say she will never forget. You are going to need to be even more careful with what you say and do around Taurus now, as even the littlest thing may set her off. She won’t ever tell you just how much you really hurt her, but she will never fully recover from this betrayal.

You are going to be kept on a short leash for a long, long time.

READ: Everything You Need To Know About Taurus Zodiac Sign (+ Daily Love Horoscopes!)

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

If you love a Gemini, you'd better start begging on your knees for forgiveness before the affair even happens. The only way she'll take you back is — if she decides to take you back — is if you claim FULL responsibility for your actions. No excuses like, "It was just a kiss" or "I was so drunk." What you did was wrong and it is all on you. Taking on this responsibility will improve your chance of being forgiven, but we can't guarantee it will happen.

Gemini is a smart one, and she will NOT make the same mistake twice.

READ: Everything You Need To Know About Gemini Zodiac Sign (+ Daily Love Horoscopes!)

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

You might have a chance to apologize to Cancer after you cheat on her because she is the zodiac sign that is most likely to hear you out. She doesn’t want to be quick to toss out all the amazing moments and memories the two of you have shared and the life you have built together, so she will take the time to listen to your side of the story.

Do not take advantage of her generosity though. You’re lucky to receive this one chance to apologize and you will NOT be getting a second.

READ: Everything You Need To Know About Cancer Zodiac Sign (+ Daily Love Horoscopes!)

Leo (July 23 - August 22)

Leo is pretty confident and how dare you not realize how amazing she is! She will dump you and dump you hard, because she can do better and she knows it, so it's likely you'll get the second chance you want. That said, Leo is also proud and doesn't want anyone to think anything in her life is even the slightest bit off, so if you cheat on her she’ll want to keep it on the down-low. She might not even tell her closest friends about what you've done.

This doesn't mean you’ll gotten away with your actions, but she won't publicly humiliate you or explode at you either in this scenario.

READ: Everything You Need To Know About Leo Zodiac Sign (+ Daily Love Horoscopes!)

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

Virgo likes to feel secure, so someone cheating on her throws her completely out of her comfort zone. If you thought you could cheat on her and get away with it because she was quiet and timid, you were mistaken. She will not back down if she feels she is being attacked, and this was a direct attack at her. What is so dangerous about her is her ability to use things to her advantage.

You might not know that she knows you cheated on her, leaving her in the perfect position for revenge...

READ: Everything You Need To Know About Virgo Zodiac Sign (+ Daily Love Horoscopes!)

Libra (September 23 - October 22)

Libra will try to make everything seem better, as though nothing ever went wrong, to begin with. She knows there is so much that has been put into this relationship already and she doesn't want to see it all go to waste. She believes it's easier to try and fix the problems in your relationship than to clean up the mess that will be left if you two end it.

READ: Everything You Need To Know About Libra Zodiac Sign (+ Daily Love Horoscopes!)

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

The best thing to do if you have cheated on Scorpio is to tell her yourself. She will go a lot easier on you and even listen to what you have to say about your actions if you’re the one who comes clean. If she hears about your unfaithfulness from someone else, forget about it.

There is no telling what she will do in that case —​ anything and everything from a flat out break-up to revenge is on the table.

READ: Everything You Need To Know About Scorpio Zodiac Sign (+ Daily Love Horoscopes!)

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

If you cheat on Sagittarius and she finds out about it, she will lose it. She constantly makes sure she has her life together, which takes a lot of work and is exhausting, so you could consider this the straw that breaks the camel’s back.

She will go from non-stop crying to non-stop screaming... and you will be on the receiving end of all of it.

READ: Everything You Need To Know About Sagittarius Zodiac Sign (+ Daily Love Horoscopes!)

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)

If you cheated on Capricorn, don’t go running to her crying about the mistake you made or waste your breath coming up with excuses for why you did it. Her intuition is powerful and she will be able to call you out on all of your BS. You messed up. Tell her that and at least she’ll be able to keep a little respect for you.

And who knows, a little respect might go a long way toward saving your relationship.

READ: Everything You Need To Know About Capricorn Zodiac Sign (+ Daily Love Horoscopes!)

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)

Screaming. Crying. Name calling. Throwing things at you. Nothing is off the table when Aquarius finds out you cheated on her. If she can, she will swing low to hurt you the way you hurt her. She will remind you of all the amazing times you’ve had, all the amazing experiences the two of you have shared, and how you have now ruined all of them. It will take a while, but ultimately Aquarius will want to find a way to recover from all of this.

If that is what you want too, you'll need to work hard to regain her trust.

READ: Everything You Need To Know About Aquarius Zodiac Sign (+ Daily Love Horoscopes!)

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)

Pisces will ignore the signs of your infidelity for as long as she can, because she doesn't want to believe that the person she loves — the person she trusts most — could do that to her and to their relationship. In the end, the pain will be too much for her to hold inside, and when that time comes you'll want to run, because she is going to explode and no one is going to be safe. She'll need a while to cool down, so there’s no point in trying to apologize right away. Give it some time, but in the end, don’t expect her to forgive you or take you back.

You messed up and may have lost the best thing you ever had.

READ: Everything You Need To Know About Pisces Zodiac Sign (+ Daily Love Horoscopes!)

 

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