Everything He Fears Most In A Relationship, Based On His Zodiac Sign
Love can be a scary thing.
Pexels Relationships are scary to begin with. You're entering into something new. Ideally, you’re putting all of yourself into this in hopes of good outcomes, that the two of you will be perfect for each other.
If it’s a really good outcome maybe you’ll end up engaged, then married, then with children and a house and a steady income and you’ll live some type of happily ever after.
See, now that’s scary when you say it all at once like that.
And if you don't end up with your own happily ever after? Maybe you’ll be the one person you know that ends up single with a broken heart. Sure, you guys were not made for each other, but it's still hard as hell to try to get over it.
It may take days, weeks or months for you to get over this heartbreak. That too is scary to think about. Especially when you think about getting into a NEW relationship.
Are you ready to do this all over again?
We fear relationships, but we enter into them anyway. We can't help but wonder what will happen if we give it a chance.
Of course we’re scared but we put those fears in the back of our minds — or at least we try to. Many of us get into relationships over and over again, knowing that there's a chance of things not working out.
Zodiac Signs have least one specific fear that only they can't bury in their minds when it comes to their relationships. Each guy has different fears in relationships, so it's sometimes hard to know why it's taking so long to bring things to the next step if you're interested in each other.
For this you'll want to look to astrology for the answers. Each sign fears one specific thing about relationships — and those fears can end up consuming the energy that could be being used in his relationship instead.
Each Male Zodiac Sign's Biggest Relationship Fear:
1Aries (March 21- April 19)
Aries becomes attached fast. He gets caught up in the fun of the relationship and can imagine forever with you.
He isn't dating for fun, he is dating to find the ONE, so his biggest fear is that the relationship is going to come to an end, and he wont be okay with it.
In fact, if the end of the relationship comes out of the blue, Aries will be a mess for weeks. He wont be able to imagine being with anyone but you and swears he will never find someone else.
2Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
Taurus focuses a lot on material possessions and how he looks on paper. Does he have a strong background and an impressive job? What about his significant other? Are they in similar fields, do they have the same beliefs?
Don't even get him started on the idea of long distance relationships, he will tell you that they just WON'T work for him.
The reason he focuses so much on what the relationship may look like on paper is because it is a reassurance of the stability he is after. Taurus needs that stability, otherwise he is a wreck.
3Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
Gemini is terrified of commitment. He's ready to have fun and he knows that sometimes, fun and games need to take the backseat in a relationship.
Sometimes you need to be serious, and he just isn't ready for that.
If it was up to him, he would forever live in the honeymoon stage of your relationship where no long term or big decisions need to be made. And because of this fear, he has a hard time keeping put.
4Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
Cancer fears any type of change. He likes when he is comfortable and familiar with what is happening around him.
He can enter into a new relationship without a problem, but when it starts getting super serious — you may see him freeze up and maybe even make a run for it.
Conversations like moving in together are exactly what he fears the most, just FYI.
5Leo (July 23 - August 22)
Leo puts his relationships first, especially his romantic ones. So his fear is that you aren’t going to do the same.
He worries that the relationship doesn't men the same to you that it does to him which you make clear by not considering it top priority. And if he feels this way, his ego gets bruised.
So sometimes he'll avoid the relationship entirely until he knows for sure that you're going to stick around.
6Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
Virgo pays attention to details, no matter how small and unimportant they may seem in the big picture. This means he notices when something in his relationship is out of place or not going exactly as he would like it to.
He will obsess over this — his biggest fear is not having a picture perfect relationship. He wants a romance that other people will be jealous of, that other people will look at and wish theirs was a good as his is.
But for that to happen he believes everything needs to go exactly as he has planned. And if not, it's not worth the risk.
7Libra (September 23 - October 22)
Libra’s biggest fear in a relationship is that he is seeing the wrong person, so then he wont commit. Even the smallest disagreement will trigger this in him.
If you guys disagree about where to grab lunch then will you disagree on the bigger things like where to live, and how to raise a family?
His best way to avoid this fear is to not fully commit to anyone until he is sure, but normally that that drives away the other person in the relationship — especially if they are tired of waiting around for a full-on commitment.
8Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
Scorpio wants to come across as the stereotypical man in the relationship, so he completely avoids showing any type of emotion.
Will he say I love you? Maybe... months into the relationship. And he will slip it into a conversation so quickly and casually that you’ll be replaying the moment wondering if he actually said it or if you're completely making it up in your head.
Don't be offended if he seems standoffish. He just needs to be 100% sure before he dives in head first.
9Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
Sagittarius does not like being told what to do or feel like he’s being controlled. When you're in a relationship with him you’re going to have to give him some room to be himself and do what he wants (no matter how much you hate doing that).
If Sagittarius feels to trapped he will make a run for it.
Give him his space (but not too much) and he'll be sure to thank you for it.
10Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
Capricorn’s biggest fear in his relationships is that he isn't showing how much he cares. He wants you to know how important this relationship is to him so he will shower you with gifts and affection and always put you and the relationship first.
Even after doing all this he has insecurities that you don’t SEE him doing all of this. His love language, if he had one, would be Words of Affirmation.
Just let him know how much you appreciate how much he puts into your relationship, and keep open lines of communication in order to keep him happy (and staying put).
11Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
Aquarius fears that he is not good enough for you or for the relationship. His fear is that he's not living up to expectations or standards and thinks that you could even do better.
Sure, that's flattering, but it's also pretty self-deprecating, and after a while his own self-doubt can put a wedge in your relationship (as it probably has done in the past).
To make sure he's willing to stay and work on appreciating your relationship for what it is, tell him how much you love being around him and with him. It's okay to stroke his ego a bit.
12Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
Pisces biggest relationship fear is being flat out rejected. To avoid this, he just doesn't put himself out there to begin with. WOMP.
You wont be finding Pisces walking up to a group of women on a night out — he’d much rather wait for a one-on-one chance encounter.
Even then he’ll be cautious of what he says and wont put himself all the way out there.