They won't tell you what's wrong straight to your face.
By Emily Ratay — Written on Apr 21, 2017
Passive-aggressive people can be very hard to deal with. Even if you are one of these people, then you probably already know how annoying it can be.
When you try to have a conversation or an argument with passive people, it only frustrates you more; nothing gets done and you end up leaving feeling even more confused.
But what is the worst part about dealing with a passive-aggressive person?
If you say something to them about their behavior, chance are that they will end up making you regret ever saying anything to them in the first place.
It’s not really that their attitude is hurtful, but it’s more like talking to a wall and still expecting something different to happen.
Put it this way: have you ever been in a situation that could just be resolved if only the other person was upfront about what was bothering them instead of assuming you should already know? Yeah… it’s like that.
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Being a more passive sign myself, I have my reasons as to why I would rather NOT get in the middle of an uncomfortable situation, but at the same time, my behavior can drive me nuts, so I know how others feel.
Some of the zodiac signs know exactly what I mean when I say this.
You end up feeling stuck between just continuing to do whatever you want (because no one tells you what to do) and being cooperative (but then, where’s the fun in that?).
So then you end up being the person who makes comments around the person you’re mad at, not necessarily at them.
And if you’ve ever been in a situation like that, then I can assure you, it will probably end up in a fight with some of the more aggressive signs.
So if you’re wondering if you’re really one of those passive-aggressive astrological signs after all (I know I’m guilty!), then keep reading.
Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
Virgo isn't much of a fan of confrontation, but she still believes that she has a lot to say when something bothers her.
The only problem with that is nothing gets resolved unless she speaks up.
Her usual go-to method is to make passive aggressive comments that are supposed to make sense, but just end up making her look angry for no reason.
Eventually, she changes the way she handles things, but not before trying her way first.
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Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
Scorpio seems like the type of person to be more aggressive than passive, but when it comes to squaring up, she's nowhere to be found.
Maybe it's a confidence thing or maybe she just doesn't think her behavior is wrong, but it makes her look flaky and dishonest (two things she hates).
Scorpio knows that in an argument, you're going to have to talk about things that you don't really want to.
By being passive aggressive, she is able to stay away from these kinds of conversations, while still giving her two cents.
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Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
Capricorn's version of passive aggressiveness is more like jabs at another person, hoping they'll start a fight with someone else.
She might try to place the blame elsewhere when there is an issue or just start something for the fun of it, but she's usually only ever an observer.
Capricorn pretends like she doesn't have time to get into petty fights or start anything, but she probably ends up doing it anyway because she's bored.
MOST of the time, her passive aggressiveness isn't meant to seriously hurt anyone.
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Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
Aquarius is passive aggressive often because she feels like the people in her life should automatically know when she's in a bad mood.
If more people were as intuitive as SHE thinks she is, then she wouldn't have to be so passive aggressive (her words, not mine).
Aquarius' passive aggressiveness doesn't stem from hate, though.
Instead, she just wants people to understand her and she doesn't know why it's harder than it looks; there are some signs who are more easily understood, but she forgets that she isn't like them.
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