What sets you off?
You have relationships with friends, with your parents, with your siblings, with significant others, and with everybody that you have direct connections to.
In order to make sure that you approach those relationships in a smoother way and have less of a rocky road with people, you need to learn why certain feelings make you cringe more than others — what makes the people around you a bit sensitive, and how to go about it all.
It is important to understand why certain actions might often affect you more than they seem to affect others. Even though some people are better at hiding their hurt feelings, some people might not feel hurt at all — even though you feel that that particular action would have hurt you endlessly. And perhaps part of their personality makes them suppress their feelings.
Everybody is different and, of course, different personalities might clash, get along phenomenally, or have trouble understanding each other.
Once we begin to approach situations in more retrospective ways, everything seems to improve, as relationships are about just that: BUILDING relations.
Essentially, we must understand and connect with our zodiac signs in order to understand very basic parts of our personalities and come to terms with who we are. Your astrological sign's characteristics might help you make sense of many relationship troubles that you may have experienced along the way.
Below, you will begin to understand why a certain feeling — whether it is being ignored, being screamed at, or being completely forgotten — seems to make you lose control of your life.
Do yourself a favor and get a grip of your own life — there's no better time than the present, so read about your emotional triggers and why you feel a certain way toward certain actions.
As an Aries, you love to keep yourself busy, so feeling as though you are not being productive is probably not your favorite feeling. In fact, it's far from it; you hate uselessly sitting around more than anything else.
Aries is a fire sign, so passion is a given, but sometimes you could use a break.
Sure, it is important to keep yourself busy, but it is also okay to take a breather every once in a while, so work on embracing the occasional break from working on your many project initiatives.
As a Taurus, feeling insecure is the worst possible feeling, so anything that involves a change scares you because it might require you to show a sign of weakness to others.
You might feel as though you have to overcome everything perfectly and like you cannot fall apart because others must see you as put together and sane all of the time.
It is more than fine to feel insecure from time to time because it forces you to look inwardly, but you also don't have to feel insecure each time perfection does not show itself or a change presents itself. Perfection is impossible to attain — which is fortunate, because there is no need to spend endless time striving for that perfect life. Just enjoy!
Feeling trapped in a cycle — a routine — must be the worst feeling for you, Gemini. This is because a Gemini is spontaneous and likes to keep discovering new things.
Routine could feel mundane, offering little to no creative escape, and the inconsistency factor of a Gemini's personality makes it likely that you will abandon the routine at the first chance you get.
In order to solve this, make sure that you follow through on your responsibilities and on things that you gave your word to, but also leave plenty of time throughout your day to venture out or simply read leisurely.
Don't be afraid of a commitment, but do allow the spontaneous side of your personality to regularly shine. People will appreciate a bit of spontaneity.
Vulnerability — especially too soon — is the worst feeling if you are a Cancer. Meeting people for the first time is truly nerve-wracking and, therefore, it is something that you might want to avoid, especially as sharing about your personal life too soon causes you major stress.
You would rather deal with anything else, but not having to put yourself in a situation where you must be vulnerable with someone that you don't know well.
It is essential that you begin to accept your reserved nature, but also try to expand your network a bit by putting yourself out there and going out of your comfort zone. This will help you open up and feel more comfortable around people, which is a skill that everyone should try to build.
As a Leo, you were probably sheltered growing up and had close relationships with the people around you. When your feelings are not reciprocated, or when things don't go your way, it probably feels as though nothing could be worse.
You hate feeling ignored and it affects you more than it affects other people. It seems as though no matter what you do, people don't always treat you the way that you deserve.
The way to work on this is to simply keep moving forward. It's easier said than done, but eventually, it will become possible — first, though, you have to fake it 'til you make it, because it's important that you take steps to ensure that you keep your sanity.
Simply keep at it and don't lose hope; eventually, you'll find that you only need a few people in your life to be close to and to treat you like the queen or king you are.
The worst feeling for you, Virgo, is being treated rudely. You feel as though there is nothing worse than somebody who screams at you or speaks to you in a certain tone.
As you are a person who enjoys the simple things in life, you prefer to stay away from crowded, rushed areas.
Nobody likes to be treated rudely, but you probably would benefit from regular meditation and, if possible, living in a more secluded, suburban or mountainous area.
Learn to detach yourself from the rude people and inconvenient circumstances that make up the world we live in.
As a Libra, the worst feeling is that something is unjust. Whether you hear of a case where somebody fails to get the punishment that they deserve, or somebody treats you in a way that is less than what you deserve, you become angry and passionate about remedying the problem.
However, sometimes it is okay to objectively take a step back and determine what effect your actions could possibly have.
Determine whether it is worth it to fight or whether this time you have to pick your battles and that certain battle did not make the cut. It is okay to live your own life the best you can and relax.
Let it work itself out, because there's nothing you can do to make the world peaceful.
As a Scorpio, the worst feeling for you is being lied to. It doesn't get much worse for you than catching someone in a web of lies, or even finding out that they told you a white lie so you wouldn't ask about their exact whereabouts or for them to provide an explanation.
It is important that you realize that people lie, and that, while it is sometimes unacceptable, you cannot let your inner peace be continuously compromised each time someone tells you a white lie.
Make it clear to the person that you don't appreciate any degree of dishonesty and that if they do it again, no matter how small, you will cut them off.
As a Sagittarius, you have a great sense of humor, so feeling constrained — for example, having to be silent in a movie or having to keep laughter in during a serious moment — might be extremely difficult. In fact, feeling constrained might be your worst nightmare.
In order to make sure that this gets easier to manage and doesn't feel like the end of the world, it is crucial that you realize that moderation, in this case, is key; there is a time and a moment for everything.
Make sure that you're generally allowing yourself the flexibility and the freedom to indulge in fun, laid-back moments, but know when enough is enough and what events might make that inappropriate. Learn to embrace each moment as it comes and judge accordingly.
The worst feeling in the world for you, Capricorn, is when somebody disagrees with you. Unfortunately, your stubborn nature can wear off on people and it can lead to many heated debates throughout your days.
The best thing you can do is learn to stay calm and accept that you don't know everything.
Truly listen to other sides so that you may make informed decisions. Also, learn to accept that not everybody is going to agree with you, even if something seems obvious to you.
The solution in some cases? Agree to disagree.
As an Aquarius, your temperamental personality makes it hard for you to tolerate broken promises. In fact, there's little that you can tolerate less.
It makes you extremely angry when somebody says that they will do something and do not follow through.
Understand that in life, there are circumstances that one cannot control, so don't get angry. Don't allow the actions of others to affect the quality of your life.
Sometimes, other people also have situations come up -- situations that they, too, cannot control. If a certain person seems to constantly flake out, and it seems like most times it is things that they control and allow to get in the way, then you are allowed to be angry, but still don't allow it to mess with you too much.
Life is about expecting the unexpected, though you'll never be prepared for it all anyway. That's life.
As a Pisces, feeling criticized is the worst feeling of them all. It doesn't matter if you're being told that your hair looks out of place or that you missed a comma in your essay; you will take criticism personally and find it hard to recover.
In life, the best way to learn is through constructive criticism, and you don't have to take each piece of criticism personally. Some people are insecure while others want the best for you, so don't allow it to get in the way of your self-love, the inner workings of your peaceful life, or the friendliness with which you greet everybody.