Everyone has a weakness. What's yours?
Think of your biggest weakness. Do you already know what it is? If you do, then you know how badly it can affect your life. Weaknesses can hold you back in ways that no person can (unless that weakness is connected to other people).
It can be difficult to enjoy the present or plan for the future when you have a weakness staring you straight in the face.
We all want to say we were able to take over our biggest flaws, kick ass, and show the world who the boss REALLY is. And oftentimes, we fantasize about this instead of actually doing something. Why? Because it's so much safer to do so.
That said, you can't expect your life to change if you never go out and change it, right? The saying that all good things come to those who wait is bullsh*t, sorry to burst your bubble.
Those who go out and do whatever it takes to get what they want are the ones who have the most fulfilled lives. And they are able to do it while still dealing with their biggest downfalls.
Each zodiac sign has a weakness; whether you try too hard or not at all, or you worry too much about yourself instead of thinking of others, chances are, if you know your astrology sign, then you probably already know the things you have to change.
But are you doing anything to change yourself?
Just because something is hard doesn't mean it isn't worth it. Just by working on yourself a little bit more each day, you can change something that you never thought possible.
Whether you choose to learn from others or take on your flaws all on your own, it IS possible to see yourself with no weaknesses and a feeling of confidence. Once you learn to believe in yourself and overcome your weaknesses, you can be the change others want to see in themselves.
Aries, your biggest weakness is how impatient you can be. With your schedule always being full, you often don't have the time to wait around for people who aren't on the same path in life as you. While it's good to have such a go-getter attitude all of the time, it can sometimes make those around you feel like you don't care what they think.
Instead of letting your short fuse make a bad situation worse, put yourself in the other person's shoes. Your impatience doesn't have to define your personality. Even if you don't see it, many others do.
Tauruses truly emulate the bull with their stubborn attitude. Whether you disagree with someone or just want to stand up for something you believe in, you can be almost impossible to reason with. This can be a great quality to have, but you often take your bull-headedness too far.
Instead of being uncompromising and refusing to hear other people out, understand that not everyone knows what you are thinking. Try to vocalize what upsets you and makes you feel so unwilling to hear the other side of the story. Don't forget, communication can be your best friend.
Geminis' indecisiveness can get them into a lot of trouble, especially when it comes to serious situations. You already know that your relationships can suffer greatly when you refuse to make decisions, no matter how difficult it might be for you, yet you still let it happen. Ask yourself why it's so hard for you to commit to big decisions; Are you afraid of something permanent or do you worry what other people will think of you?
You inconsistency can turn a lot of people off, so if it feels like you are becoming wishy-washy with others, try to explain what is going through your mind. Simply not giving an answer doesn't have to be the end of the conversation; let others know you still care, even if it is hard for you to articulate it.
Cancer, your insecurity about yourself continues to back you into a corner, making it harder and harder for you to grow into the person you most want to be. Really think about why you doubt yourself. Is it something physical or emotional, or is it an external force that brings you down?
Your apprehension can lead to constantly feeling pessimistic about yourself. Instead of living in the now and seeing yourself in a positive light, you tend to expect the worst. Don't let the little voice in your head dictate how you see yourself; tell yourself daily that you are worth so much more than you think.
Leo's laziness often gets in the way of things that are most important in their life. It can be far too easy for you to get caught up in the security of life that you often refuse to try. Why? Simply because you're comfortable! It's easy for an opportunity to slip by, and if you don't get out of your comfort zone, you'll never know what it feels like to grow.
Unfortunately, Leo doesn't always know when they are being lazy. You can often let your arrogant attitude trick you into thinking your laid back attitude isn't harmful to your future. It might be hard for you to get into a head space of determination, but it is necessary to your survival.
As a Virgo, you are often serious in life and in play. You have a precision-like focus on what you want in life, which is admirable to those around you. However, any effort that causes you to fall short of your goals results in criticism and blaming yourself, even if it isn't your fault.
You can be far too critical of yourself, making you your own worst enemy. You can often close yourself off to people if you get into the mindset that you don't deserve happiness. This can lead to you feeling shy and unwilling to put yourself out there for fear of being rejected. Learning to believe in yourself might sound cheesy, but it's what you need the most.
Libra, you know how to attract attention just by making yourself look more vulnerable than you really are. Unfortunately, your self-pitying attitude only attracts the wrong kind of attention; the type of response that makes others see you as someone who would rather not like an adult. Your self-indulgent personality can make you seem unable to handle serious situations.
Instead of refusing to take others' opinions of you seriously, get that chip off your shoulder and own up to your weakness. Nothing good comes from icing people out and carrying grudges when no one else is paying attention but you. Think about how others see you, and make a change to a more adult way of responding to criticism and opinions.
You can't have it both ways, Scorpio, even though you try hard to have it all. Your secretiveness might be attractive at first, but as people get to know you better, they realize they don't know you at all! There doesn't seem to be any rhyme or reason to your closed-off attitude, yet you seem to feel safer the less others know about you.
That said, you can often let jealousy get the better of you when it comes to relationships. You might not open up to others, but if they do the same, you can turn into a whole other personality. Don't let jealousy make you do something you'll regret; think about how others feel when you clam up before criticizing them for being guarded around you.
People with the Sagittarius sign know how to wrap people around their finger, but it can quickly go to their head. You already know you can be incredibly charming, yet you continue to let yourself fill people's heads with empty promises. Whether you do it subconsciously or fear that others really don't like you, it isn't hard for you to get yourself in too deep.
Your big promises give way to something much bigger going on in your life. You are a restless soul that constantly wants more. Unfortunately, this can mean that some of the best things in your life slip right by you. Instead of constantly waiting for something better to come along, give thanks for what you have right now.
You're a smarty pants, Capricorn, and you already know it. However, just because you are an intelligent person doesn't mean that others aren't on your level. Your condescending attitude isn't a teachable lesson for you; in fact, it just makes you unbearable sometimes.
The more you talk down to others, the more unforgiving you seem. If you want to be the person that can be there for anyone, anytime, you need to learn how to talk to people as if you are all equals. There is no reason for you to act like you are better than everyone when that just isn't the case. A humble attitude can get you farther in life than a salty one.
You might seem mysterious to some people, Aquarius, but to many, you can act like a jerk, even if you aren't trying to. Your detached personality might be good in some situations, but when you let it carry over into your personal and professional relationships, you end up looking like you just don't give a damn.
Being aloof isn't sexy, it's cold. There is nothing wrong with being emotionally available, and though you hear it a million times, you still don't get it. You can have a big heart and still be tough; it doesn't have to be an either-or situation. Your heart is full of untapped potential, so let others see a new side of you.
Pisces, you so badly want to experience all that the world has to offer, but something keeps standing in your way. Are you scared or is there something bigger holding you back? Your fearfulness isn't doing you much good; in fact, it might just be the biggest issue you are facing. No one is to blame but yourself for this way of thinking.
It's not a bad thing to be trying to get over timidity, but when you make yourself look like the victim, you make it hard for others to sympathize with you. You don't have to act like a martyr to get others to feel for you; maybe you want the attention, but ask yourself if it is really worth it to get noticed this way. Try being your own hero, instead, and see where that takes you.