Dating Mistakes Women Make On Online Dating Sites That Keep Them Single

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It's a tiny thing you probably didn't even think about.

As many studies and experts have found, what your dating profile says is just as important as how it looks. While having a knock out photo is definitely going to lure in those dates, when it comes to procuring something that's going to last, you need to convey to prospective suitors what it is that makes you special from all the rest. That means avoiding the dating mistakes women make.

In other words, you need to use your words, and if you don't know how to use those words — as in, spell them correctly — then you might as well just call it quits now.

A new study by EliteSingles asked 1,000 single Brits what was their biggest turn-off in other peoples' dating profiles. Coming in strong in the #1 spot, at 25 percent of singles thinking it's the worst, is "spelling or grammatical mistakes."

Not too far behind at 24 percent is sexual innuendos (yeah, keep those dirty jokes for the third date, buddy), 22 percent with negativity (sure, everything sucks, but you don't need to bring it up all the time), and 15 percent for lacking description.


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Apparently, those questions are there for a reason after all. The bottom two dating mistakes women make went to narcissism and "too many clichés," at 8 percent and 6 percent, respectively. Although I'm not really sure why a dating profile would have too many clichés, unless, of course, the person behind the profile is, in himself a cliché, then that's just beyond sad.

The study also looked into the top dating profile photo no-nos. Coming in at #1 and well above the second no-no, percentage-wise, are photos that are "too revealing." I'm not sure if that's in regards to the ever-popular penis picture or something a bit more demure.

In the second spot, at 18 percent, was the complaint of photos in which the person is wearing sunglasses, because, I mean, come on... really? Like, really?! People looking at your profile want to know that you have eyes, man!


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In third place, at 16 percent was bad Photoshopping, which seems absurd because your prospective date is going to see the "real" size of your thighs eventually, but I digress. And at 11 percent and 10 percent were portraits and selfies, with no word on whether or not a laser backdrop portrait of you and your cat is OK or not.

Party pictures and group pictures also got no love, which leads one to wonder exactly what sort of pictures online daters are looking for. Perhaps something arranged and photographed by Mario Testino and in the pages of Vogue?

Takeaway? It's hard out there in the online dating world and it's even harder if you're someone who can't spell and likes to be naked in photos all the time. But while you may not be able to keep your pants on every time someone with a camera is nearby, the least you can do is learn how to spell.

Admittedly, spelling is way easier than staying clothed, so you should at least have one of them in the bag.


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Your biggest photo mistakes:
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Men agree that posting photos that are too revealing top their list of turn-offs. And wearing sunglasses in your photos (because WTF?), unsuccessfully photoshopping your pictures, and only using selfies are also pretty bad.

Your biggest profile mistakes:
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Aside from your pictures, the content your profile is also important. Men admitted that having poor grammar and spelling would immediately make them click away from your profile, while using sexual innuendos, being negative, and proving yourself to be a narcissist also chased him away.

 

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Amanda Chatel is a writer who divides her time between NYC and Paris. She's a regular contributor to Bustle and Glamour, with bylines at Harper's Bazaar, The Atlantic, Forbes, Livingly, Mic, The Bolde, Huffington Post and others. Follow her on TwitterFacebook, or her website

 

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