Let's face it, men cheat! Well, some of them anyway. And according to the numerous studies available, it's more than a handful. In fact, according to some recent studies approximately 60 percent of men will cheat on their spouses.
Now, it's not my intention to upset you with these numbers, because I'm one of those glass-half-full kind of guys. You may be depressed by these figures, but if you look a little deeper under the surface, you will soon realize that for every six men who will cheat, there are four men who will be faithful ... and that's not so bad, is it?
If you're over the age of 20 — and you haven't been living with your head in the sand — it should come as no surprise to know that some men cheat. Whether it's the President of the United Sates, the top golfer in the world or a world class musician, it's a proven fact that when it comes to cheating on their spouses, some men just can't keep it in their pants.
Simply put, those are the guys to stay away from! No matter how good looking they are, how great they are in bed or how much you think they will change once they are with you, the sad fact is they won't. As my grandmother always used to say: "A leopard doesn't change his spots!"
The good news is that guys who cheat are pretty transparent and predictable. In fact, I believe that there are three major signs that accurately predict if a guy will cheat on you, and here they are:
1. He's secretive. Guys who cheat often lead double lives, and in order to do so, they have to cover their tracks. A guy who is secretive and doesn't reveal much about himself or his life is a guy who is a prime candidate to be featured on an upcoming episode of "Cheaters."
Communication and the willingness to be an open book are two of the most important indicators of a happy and successful relationship. And if a guy is keeping secrets in the beginning, look out because you are headed for trouble. Keep reading ...
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