Do you often sabotage your relationships because you can't let guys do the pursuing? Want to know how to resist the urge to be a stage-five clinger? If so, help is on the way.

In this video, dating coach and YourTango Expert Maya Ezratti explains that it throws off the romantic balance for guys when you—as a woman—aggressively pursue them. "Distract yourself, do anything else but chase down a guy," she says. "When women pursue men, it's going against nature." So what do you do to occupy your mind? She offers a few suggestions.

 

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