Why Doesn't My Boyfriend Give Me Butterflies Anymore?

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If your relationship has lost it's spark, Sheryl Paul can help!

Has the spark disappeared in your relationship? Unsure of how to bring back those "butterfly" feelings

In this video, counselor, therapist and YourTango Expert Sheryl Paul explains that it's very common for couples to experience this "after honeymoon" stage. "We think that love is a feeling and don't understand that the strong feelings we associate with love inevitably fade over time," Sheryl says. Some people jump from relationship to relationship and are "infatuation junkies" that seek the "love drug," but these feelings are normal in our culture.

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