How to break down your emotional walls and let love in.
If having your heart broken has caused you to put up emotional walls, it can be difficult to open up to a new relationship. Letting someone in is the last thing you want to do when you know it might only end in heartache.
In this video, Dating Coach, Matchmaker and YourTango Expert Jasbina Ahluwalia explains how to let your guard down and let love in. First, she wants you to know that being selective about who you let in is actually a good thing. "This quality will serve you well," she says, "in both finding and maintaining a great relationship."
Next, she says, instead of focusing on protecting yourself from rejection, work on strengthening your sense of self. Want to learn how? Check out the video above and find out!
The two of you have such a good time together. You could have fun being out and social, engaging in an activity, or doing absolutely nothing at all. Life is challenging, so a partner who lifts your spirts and helps you lighten up is a definite keeper.
Everyone you introduce him to sees what you see–a truly good man who cares about you. It's hard not to adore a man who lights you up inside. When the people who know and love you best give your man a solid thumbs up, that's a guy worth keeping around.