Do you know *exactly* what kind of partner you're looking for?
Do you know exactly what kind of partner you're looking for? While it's almost always wise to know what you want, some experts insist that having a list of criteria for your future mate only sets you up for failure. After all, no one will ever meet every single standard ... or will they?
Foremost, Jasbina wants you to know that this question arises fequently; it's a common concern among her matchmaking clients, so you shouldn't feel alone. Next, she says it's a great idea to hone in on what you want in a life partner. Sometimes, a list is the perfect way to organize your thoughts and gain insights into your own needs, expectations and desires. However, problems arise when these lists are too specific.
"Make sure it," i.e. your list, "expands rather than limits your options," Jasbina explains. To do that, she suggests taking three critical steps. Check out the video to learn Jasbina's suggestions and determine whether your list of must-haves is on the right track!
The two of you have such a good time together. You could have fun being out and social, engaging in an activity, or doing absolutely nothing at all. Life is challenging, so a partner who lifts your spirts and helps you lighten up is a definite keeper.
Everyone you introduce him to sees what you see–a truly good man who cares about you. It's hard not to adore a man who lights you up inside. When the people who know and love you best give your man a solid thumbs up, that's a guy worth keeping around.