8 Relationship Tricks Happy Couples Use

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Dancing out a fight and more oddly wise, happy couple tricks to maintain your relationship.

Every now and then, we browse Metafilter, a huge community questionboard, to stave off our boredom. When we came across a board titled, What Clever Relationship Hacks Have You Come Up With?, we couldn't help but be grateful that we learned something in the process of passing the afternoon hours. To clarify, by "relationship hacks," the original poster meant clever or unconventional ways to maintain a healthy relationship. Since the forum received so much feedback, we've narrowed down eight of the funniest and presumably wisest relationship tips from real-life couples from around the web. Let us know in the comments whether or not you agree with these: 

1. If you and your partner are indecisive about where to eat or what movie to watch, play the "5-3-1" game. One person names five choices, the other vetoes two of them, and then the first person eliminates the remaining two. Ta-da, no more "Where you do want to eat?" "I don't care, what do you want to do?"

2. The person who cooks shouldn't do the dishes. It's only fair! Chores for Two: Why Men Don't Pitch In

3. Every cohabiting couple needs a separate room with a door that shuts, even locks. This room can be used for napping, reading, listening to music, wrapping presents, having private phone conversations, or sulking. Privacy, Please! We're Having Sex In Here

4. Thank each other for everything. There's no need to be effusive when someone takes out the garbage, but it's nice to show and be shown appreciation for even the most everyday obligations.

5. Don't tell people that they're wrong about insignificant things. For instance, if your guy says that Steven Spielberg directed Star Wars, laugh a little on the inside, but don't tease him for not knowing it was George Lucas. And for the love of God, do not correct each other's grammar in public.

6. Speaking of being wrong, let it go when someone admits to being at fault, especially if it's for something minor. One couple suggested that you play, "FailDance" where the person who was wrong has to perform a song-and-dance routine after apologizing. In doing so, you replace the resentment and "I told you so's" with a silly moment the two of you can share.

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