Are you curious about the motives of the guy you’re dating? How can you tell if he’s actually interested in you, or just looking for a fling? YourTango is here to help.

In this video, YourTango Expert Dr. Diana Kirschner from offers her advice on decoding your guy’s intentions. She warns that having sex too soon can be bad for a new relationship. “If you jump into bed with somebody, you’re already having a fling and chances are it will tend to kill off that relationship,” she explains. How can you avoid this?

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