How To Tell If He Likes You, Or Just Wants A Fling
Having sex too soon can be bad for a new relationship.
Is he only looking for a fling? Dr. Diana Kirshner gives us a very simple method to figure this out.
Give advice or see what others had to say here: Interested in you or just a fling?
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Featuring Love and Dating Expert Dr. Diana Kirschner http://www.lovein90days.com
Discussion
There's nothing wrong with a "fling" as long as both understand the motive. Best to be up front about it from the get-go and be consenting not compliant adults about the nature of this "dating/mating" ritual. That way you don't have to pluck daisy petals playing the "She/He loves me, she/he loves me not" game.
I can see why someone might feel if they could get attention from someone else' guy, they must be special. BUT I think they might be fooling themselves.
Some guys are happy to take sex wherever they can get it. They don't have to worry about whether or not they like you enough to be committed to you since they can't be committed to you and you know it.
Getting someone to be truly interested in you is more of an accomplishment, although perhaps it would be better to prove yourself in some way other than attracting a guy. Then you could have a relationship with someone because you love them and they treat you well.
I disagree flings are the best. A female who is still a little girl is a turnoff. Waiting? For what/? you may have great sex but are not compatible anyway. So get the sex have lovers and date. I hate dating so do a lot of other people. a sexual encounter that's my ticket!! Better to know what is what than to waste time and get an unpleasant surprise!!!
