Your Hands-On Guide To Self-Love (Wink, Wink)

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For some reason, you can't mention female masturbation (or solo sex) without causing a huge commotion. Even though it's totally natural, people still feel awkward about solo sex, especially when it comes to women. And we have a major problem with that!

Ladies, contrary to popular belief, your body is NOTHING to be ashamed about.

 

There are so many perks to getting to know what your likes and dislikes are in the bedroom. In fact, knowing what you want will benefit both you and your special guy in the future when you're ready to take things to the next level.

But being ready is only half of the battle.

To put things into perspective, here's a question from one of our readers: "I've never really explored my own body 'down there' if you know what I mean. I'm eager to give it a try, but, embarrassingly, I don't know where to start. Any tips?"

When it comes to female masturbation, there are a few things you must know. For starters, it's super important that you are comfortable. The one thing you must remember is that solo sex is a way to get to know your body.

And if you know your body well, this will lead to a more exciting sex life for you and your partner.

So if you're nervous about going solo for the first time, these sexy tips will help you guys get off—safely. After you watch this super helpful video, get ready to maximize your pleasure the right way!

TRANSCRIPT:

Question: I’ve never really explored my own body “down there” if you know what I mean.  I’m eager to give it a try, but, embarrassingly, I don’t know where to start.  Any tips?

Ok ladies.  Let’s get down to business.  Between 20 and 40 percent of us haven’t explored what’s going on between our legs.  And even we who have can always use some tips.  Being able to bring a smile to your own face means having a better time when you’re with your partner. 

Step 1.  Apply pressure to your “pleasure center”.  That sensitive spot on the outside of your body.  Try drawing circles with your finger, writing the alphabet, or pretending to paint.  Step 2.  Move your finger inside.  Using a “come hither” motion just might fulfill that demand.  Step 3.  Use steps 1 and 2 in various combinations until you figure out what feels best for you.  Once you’ve mastered that, move on to step 4.  Give your hand a rest and grab a toy instead.  Alternate with different speeds and be sure to try out different types.  Most importantly, explore, relax, and have some fun finding the best way to make yourself pop.

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