All Women Are Prostitutes. Seriously?
Men dating online don't mind a few extra pounds, but Ashley Dupre thinks you're a hypocrite.
Good news, bad news, non-news time.
First, the good news/bad news. A survey by dating site Date.com stated that 90 percent of women polled felt that men couldn't see past women being a little heavy. But the dudes surveyed overwhelmingly thought bigger can be beautiful—85 percent appreciated a bit of something to grab onto. Roughly 54 percent of the husky-hunters felt that curvier gals were better in bed. Echoing decades of locker room sentiment, 80 percent of the questioned men felt that larger women would be more appreciative of attention and generally less bee-otch-y than their svelte counterparts. Hmm. (It should be noted that 87 percent of the women surveyed feel safer with a "bigger guy," which means we've found exactly one "advantage" of big guy-edness spoken of in the Comfort Wipe info-tisement.) Read: What A Man Sees When You're Naked
And now the non-news; it's not all cream cheese and Alfredo sauce up in here. Because Ashley Dupre thinks that females, in general, have whorish tendencies. You may recall Ashley Dupre was the young lady who was caught turning tricks with old Governor Eliot Spitzer. Though Spitzer has landed a job teaching at New York's City College, someone in the tabloid media decided to stir up the hornet's nest about a possible run for Senate or New York Comptroller by the disgraced pointy-chinned fellow. This, in turn, led Ashley Dupre to blog it up, and for the New York Post to cover said ruminations as if it was news.
The former call girl from New Jersey feels that any criticism of her old profession (the oldest profession, some say) is tantamount to hypocrisy because all women like nice things. And plenty of members of the fairer sex don't mind having a guy whom they're not particularly attracted to take care of them. And some of these women even live in New York City. I'm in favor of legalizing and regulating prostitution and really don't mind that Ashley Dupre too much, but let's be real: accepting money for sex makes someone a prostitute; liking nice things makes one trophy wife or kept woman or gold digger, at worst. Tales Of A Reluctant Trophy Wife
Discussion
Articles like this make me sick, enraged, and ashamed that I was born with a vagina instead of a penis!!
After reading this, I no longer know what men find attractive. I also resent the fact that women in general are considered property to be purchased!!
I have been overweight my whole life. I was a size 12 when I graduated High School, Up to a 20 thanks to college and then down to an 8 after busting my ass (but at 4'11" that is still not tiny by any means. And now I'm a 20 again thanks to the depo. shot for birth control oh yeah!!! But anyway, I'm 34 years old. I have had 6 boyfriends. Only 2 of the 6 were overweight themselves. The rest 5'9 and taller and no bigger than a 34 waist. Good looking, normal down to earth guys. I have always been outgoing and "perky" as it's been called. I don't put myself down. I don't eat like a pig at all. And I've asked before, WHY ME?? I'm FAT, so WHY me? And they say its all about how you feel about yourself and how you treat others and personality. I've always had a lot of friends. I'm not a slut by any means. (not now for sure, I've been married for 9 years) But out of those 6 I only had sex with 3 of them out of respect for me for the first 3 in early early 20's and still a virgin at the time. But the other 3.....holy crap....best sex anyone could ever hope for. I got an email from an ex from 12 years ago. He said he still thinks about me from time to time because it was the best sex he's still ever had in his life and he's 37 now and married. It's all in the attitude and the way you carry yourself on the inside, not how much weight you carry on the outside. And being married, I would never ever cheat, but I even still get flirted with by men at church even...that's kinda weird.
OK, first? Let's clear something up. men and women have a different definition of the word "heavy." Just like men and women have a different definition of the word "curvy." Curvy to a man is Jessica Alba. Curvy to a woman is America Ferrara. So a man saying he'll look past "a few extra pounds" is really saying, "If you're built like Tyra, that's ok." Woopee.
Second, let's keep in mind the quality of men who are bestowing their acceptance on us size 10+. Men on a practically free dating website. Which is like polling dudes from the casual encounters section of craigslist. In other words, they ain't so picky.
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The survey about overweight women is really interesting. The guys are a little confusing, though. One survey said:
She can be obese; it doesn't matter as long as I love her: 79.9%
A couple of pounds overweight, but she should be working on losing it: 63.8%
20 pounds is my limit: 42.5%
I wouldn't date someone who is overweight: 20.5%
So how fat can you be?
I liked this part, too:
I find that overweight women are less bitchy than thin women, they appreciate
the attention men give them and are more loving because of it: 80%
Because it matters what's on the inside, not on the outside: 68.7%
Heavier women are better in bed: 54.2%
Overweight women have more fun, especially those who are happy in their own
skin: 12.5%
All of the above: 34.6%
Well first of all. I believe in marriage. It should be give and take. Women still need to be sexy even if they are married. Get a little down and dirty. We are women, beautiful and sexy to the men we love. Right.
Prostitution should be legal. It protects the women and it protects society. It would help keep down the abuse of women and the spread of disease. Keeping it illegal proliferates cheating, abuse, drugs, and disease.
When people do something wrong they always want to believe that everyone else is doing it, too. Dupre is bitter because nobody is giving her a second chance. She seems to believe that the reason no one is buying her music is because they know she was a prostitute. The idea that she might need to work a little harder to succeed has passed her by.
On a tangent, Spitzer and Dupre managed to convince me that yes, prostitution should be illegal. It's not a victimless crime.
