Advice: My Wife Won't Tell Me Her Fantasies
Revealing sexual fantasies isn't always easy
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My guy asks me the same question, and I never tell him because they are my fantasies. I enjoy playing them out in my mind and not having to explain why cartoons or cheese is involved. I also don't want him to try to make one come true because that puts the burden of the real world on something that is supposed to be mine. I agree with the advice here, just imagine that you're the one in my fantasies (replacing the animated cheese) and move on.
Cheese?
No judgements here...just trying to figure how that...never mind.
; )
I understand what you are saying though, Symian. Some fantasies are really just pure fantasy that are for us individually, and they would lose flavor if shared and interest if a performance was actually attempted. My imaginary sex life is extremely rich, but my real one is extremely satisfying, and I feel no great need to marry the two together.
