It's safe to say that when it comes to sex, it doesn't matter how long we've been seeing someone—there are probably a billion questions racing through our minds on what happens next. Should we take charge and be more dominant? Or should we let your partner take control? Before being intimate with someone we really care about, it can be super nerve wracking trying to figure out how to ease into things. But at the end of the day, spending so much time wondering what is going through our lover's mind can be a total mood killer.

In this installment of "That's What He Said", the guys talk about who they think should take over the reigns by taking initiative in the bedroom. First off, they say that because guys are task orientated, if they're told that doing three things will lead to something great, then chances are they'll do them. But that doesn't mean that they don't want to take the back seat in the bedroom. Yes, really. Who wouldn't get frustrated if they constantly had to be the one to always initiate? That being said, being told what to do and when to do it can be a major turn off.

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