Alright ladies, let's be real. It's safe to say that when it comes to sex, it doesn't matter how long you've been seeing someone; trying to figure out what your next move will be is one of the scariest things in the world! Seriously, call us crazy but there are probably a billion questions racing through your mind on what happens next and who should make the first move.
Let us know if any of these questions sound familiar:
Should you take charge and be more dominant? Or should you let your partner take control for a change?
Before being intimate with someone you really care about, it can be super nerve wracking trying to figure out how to ease into things. But at the end of the day, spending so much time wondering what is going through your lover's mind can be a total mood killer.
In this installment of "That's What He Said", the guys talk about who they think should take over the reigns by taking initiative in the bedroom. First off, they say that because guys are task orientated, if they're told that doing three things will lead to something great, then chances are they'll do them.
However, that doesn't mean that they don't want to take the back seat in the bedroom. Yes, really.
But if you think about it from this perspective, it makes sense: Who wouldn't get frustrated if they constantly had to be the one to always initiate? In fact, the guys claim that being told what to do and when to do it can be a major turn off. Talk about mixed signals!
Ladies, we don't know about you but we're not that easily convinced. Thoughts?