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The Number One Reason Why He Didn't Call Back

Dating expert Rachel Greenwald discusses her new book, "Why He Didn't Call You Back."

Rachel Greenwald discusses her new book, "Why He Didn't Call You Back" and the number reason why men don't call back. Part 1 of a 5-part series. Want to see the see rest of the series?  Click the links below to keep watching.

Part 2: Three More Reasons He Didn't Call You Back
Part two of our five-part interview series with Rachel Greenwald.
Part 3: How To Get Him To Call You Back
Want to make sure there's a second date? Follow these tips.
Part 4: The Most Outrageous Reasons He Didn't Call Back
Sometimes there's a good reason he didn't call you back.
Part 5: Why He Didn't Call You Back: LIVE!
Author Rachel Greenwald answers audience questions in the final episode of this series.

For more from Rachel Greenwald, including a quiz to find out what type you are, click here. 

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Jant Jackson manhood101.com
Posted November 16, 2009

If you didn't put out, he won't call back. Simple. Guys are dating you to hear you talk. If they want to hear annoying sounds, they can turn on the tv:

Also, no man wants to date a gold digging bitch. If you can't pay your own way, you are a freeloading leech. That's a total turn off to a man: http://www.scribd.com/doc/21733512/Principles-101

Women who say they are "independent" and yet expect a man to pay for them are f*****g idiots. They have no idea what the word independent even means. If you are a gold digging slut who only dates for money, you don't deserve any respect. A guy should drop a load on your face if possible and then toss you back in the dumpster where you belong.

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lessobliviousthanyou Complicated
Posted July 3, 2009

"Remember Bush... oversaw the greatest financial collapse in human history."

Where did you get that statistic? Ever heard of the Great Depression? That was a bit worse.

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lessobliviousthanyou Complicated
Can't Relate - Posted July 3, 2009

So, you like telling other people what to do don't you? You act as if you're trying to help with your soft 'don't run away' voice and seemingly obvious advice. You love the Curry-Man because he's obviously childish and emotionally stunted. The woman didn't get into an hour long lecture on tastes-genetic or socialization, nor did she order the curry against his wishes. She made a comment. And he was obviously unable to deal with her having different tastes or not bow to his greater knowledge.
Please. These men and sad and insecure. Ok, maybe a power suit is a bad idea, but because it's not date-wear, not because G-d forbid the fragile male ego should feel a flutter of worry. And when you say that she'll have a lot of men to chose from, yeah men who think she's a different person and will feel lied to, with good reason when the real her comes out. Men who expect someone quiet, submissive, and stereotypical, not someone human.
So good for you for being the shoulder for these idiots to lean on and voice of rehashed hypocrisy for misguided woman everywhere.
And honestly, I'm not sure which gender you offend more.

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Can't Relate - Posted June 21, 2009

This is insulting to women's intelligence. She never defines what a "boss lady" is, other than apparently criticizing a guy's taste in food and not changing after work for a date. Let your hair down and act stereotypically feminine and you'll apparently be drowning in dates! Don't look busy or important or you might scare a guy off!

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Posted June 19, 2009

Funny they deleted my comment, oh yes, I will stay single forever, wait... I'm engaged, hmmm...

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Posted June 18, 2009

Hmm this just makes it more the reason to not even deal with dating, lol.

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Posted June 18, 2009

Boss Ladies deserve to be single forever!

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Posted June 18, 2009

I'm boss lady haha but NOT like that. There is nothing wrong with being strong and having a brain...

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Posted June 18, 2009

perfect.

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Posted June 18, 2009

So boss ladies are now being punished for being strong and not submissive? What is this? Lets go back to the old days when females were weak. If a man is not MAN enough to handle a boss lady then he is not worth the time.

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Posted June 18, 2009

whooaaa great vid shes great
quite insightful and helpful

btw, the two women, hard to believe its the same woman!

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Posted June 18, 2009

So to sum up here - be a SOFT feminist bitch not a hard one... Lie to the guy to the fact that you want to be the man and then AFTER you land him - be yourself - the bosssssss... no wonder we have so many gay men in this world...

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Posted June 18, 2009

LMAO, that's a good one

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Posted June 18, 2009

LMAO - sorrrry ?????????

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Posted June 18, 2009

OMG, I would never last a date with this dating coach.., can't stand her voice, she sounds like she is sufficating, I'm getting claustrofibic here.......................!

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Posted June 18, 2009

(slap) breath dam you, breath.

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Posted June 18, 2009

any the girls will end up dating the one that shows the least interest lol

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Posted June 18, 2009

Yep, totally change for him! Pu on a show, that is the good answer :))

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Posted June 18, 2009

"This is the way it is" lol

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Posted June 18, 2009

She is right on "Look like a woman" and act/behave like a woman. Men want feminine soft family lady, not a man/woman hybrid...

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Posted June 17, 2009

I like the boss lady.

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Posted June 17, 2009

You just want every yourtango video to be some reassertion that being a feminist nazi is the way to go. This is great advice, but if you want to stay single forever then keep acting like date storm troopers. When I'm with my friends, I act like whatever, but when I go out on a date I do things like hold the door open for a lady, and pull out the chair so she can sit down first. I don't do that with my drinking buddies. This video is just asking you to act more lady-like on dates goddamit

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Posted June 17, 2009

she's Harvard MBA, can't be trusted. Remember Bush also got his MBA from Harvard, and oversaw the greatest financial collapse in human history.

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Posted June 17, 2009

So what I'm understanding is, do not be yourself be someone else, a fake, something your not. and in time show who you really are and then try to figure out why he/she dumped you a while later. Come on seriously, people be yourself, if not then don't waste your time looking for someone because you will not be happy.

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Posted June 18, 2009

I'm don't think that's what this video was saying. OBVIOUSLY you should be yourself on a date but as you are FIRST getting to know someone, be open and not too confrontational. At least that's what I got from the vid.

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Posted June 17, 2009

Because they don't take their own advice knowing it sucks LOL. sorry had to respond to that one.

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Lyz Married Community Manager
Posted June 18, 2009

Wow. The boss lady mentality gets me in trouble in my marriage too!I guess equal partners means not bossing him around. Who knew?

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