Poll: Is Your Man Higher-Maintenance Than You? By YourTango. Posted on Apr 30th 2009. EmailPrint Comment? Share on Facebook And are you ok with it? In this day and age, men care as much as women—and sometimes more—about the way they look. How would you feel if your boyfriend was way more into his looks than you were into your own? Poll: Is Your Man Higher-Maintenance Than You?: Yes and that's fine. I like my man looking good for me and I appreciate the effort he makes. No, I'm tired of being the one waiting around while he gets ready!