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Signs He's Serious

Find out which means more: a dozen roses or frequent phone calls.

LoveFeed shows you how to tell if your man is serious. Watch and learn whether grand gestures or small things matter more.

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Voli23 Single open heart open mind
Can Relate - Posted October 6, 2009

This is all very true... I had a smile on my face until the picture of the Birkenstocks w/ socks popped up. lol!

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Monica Freeman Taken Single Again !
Posted May 27, 2009

OK so I guess me and my man are pretty serious then........he went from barely any texts a day to
sending me texts during the day like "How has your day been" and even closes with a "Good nite text"
We dont put bounderies on one another, and i never pry questions nor answers.
But yesterday he did something really special for me:
I have in my bedroom a teddy bear over 30yrs old, and hes called "My Husband"
Hes been through several washing machines and is still in tip to shape,
Yet Justin decided to get me a Build A Bear!
I thought that was special, maybe he wants to get rid of the old "Stuffy Husband" (he cant be jealous of a stuffed animal would he lol)
But also since he created the bear himself made it des te more special.
Justin is a man of very few words, but a new Bear really showed He cares about me, and that means the world to me.......The new bear i mean (ahum!)

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Posted April 22, 2009

Those few examples are basically exactly what my boyfriend does. I think it shows honest curiosity and love, along with commitment (plans to get married to you eventually).

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Posted April 6, 2009

I love this!!! The guy I have been seeing (about a month now) calls me and when I apologize for not having anything interesting to talk about, He says " I just like hearing your voice." And, I met his family this weekend. He is meeting mine next. he definitely seems willing to make the extra effort, which is OK in my book!

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Peenu Taken Hopeless Romantic...
Posted April 1, 2009

My guy does all of those things but still refuses to make us "official"... WTF? We have been "dating" for 11 months, and his mother still refers to me as "Matt's friend". I am going to lose it soon, and when I do, he is going to wish he wasn't so wishy-washy! i don't know, what would you guys do?

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Sexy Sagittarius Taken It is the best
Posted April 2, 2009

I would threaten to leave him just to see how he would react , and if he act as though it doesn't matter then I really would leave

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Posted February 28, 2009

I have no idea, how I came across this site. OMG..............I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted February 26, 2009

I think I'm going to enjoy this site!

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Posted February 23, 2009

I believe this is wrong.

You can tell if your guy is serious through your own interpretation, not some guide via YouTube.

It's quite easy to tell if your guy is serious or not. Trust me, I've seen all of these signs before. It's VERY easy. Just follow your intuition. That's the best thing you can do.

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Posted February 23, 2009

I wouldn't make a guy get rid of stuff he likes... especially the Phish cd!

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greenbear6 Taken
Posted February 23, 2009

I love this site so glad i found it

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julie6683 Taken
Posted February 17, 2009

Wow, this site rocks!! lol

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Posted February 16, 2009

lol this is funny.. i never saw this one.

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Posted February 6, 2009

my boyfriend andi have been together for over a year he says he loveme but dosent do annything of those things nothing.

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Posted March 29, 2009

HATE TO TELL YOU THIS - LOVE IS A ACTION. NO ACTION NO LOVE.
IN AMERICA THE IDEA OF THE "FATHER" IS DEAD - MANY GUYS HAVE HAD A REALLY LAME/WIMPY DAD. SO THEY DO NOT REALLY KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH LIFE... SEE WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU ASK HIM - "WHAT IS LOVE?" NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS - TELL HIM.. "NO... ITS A ACTION- YOU GOT ANY? I LEARNED THIS FROM MY WIFE LOL :o))

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nubiancoco Single
Posted January 20, 2009

WHAT GUY ACTUALLY FALLS INTO THESE CATAGORIES.

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Mango Married
Posted January 21, 2009

nubiancoco....your caps lock is on.

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nubiancoco Single
Posted January 21, 2009

sorry!

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Posted January 3, 2009

My laddie does call for like 2 minutes, says how his day was, then he er just goes off the phone. He says he wants to hear my voice as well! I could talk about the phone forever.

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Posted December 31, 2008

You have problems lady.

Some people really are happy, and if you aren't, well i wish you happy misery.

But trying to make other people feel like crap, like you, is just disgusting.

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Posted December 11, 2008

Jealousy does not mean I'm serious, means I'm being stupid.
serious for me, means I do spend time with a girl I like, I call her, I wanna talk to her, I introduce her to my friends/family. I care about what she thinks. Who owns berkinstocks now adays anyway lol

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Posted December 10, 2008

atleast now i know how to prove to my girlfriend im serious

She always says im not :(

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Posted December 14, 2008

Well If you're trying it will get through to her eventually that you really do care about her and it will work out ^^

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Posted December 10, 2008

Then be serious by breaking up with her.

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Posted December 11, 2008

Whats the point in that?

I love her, always have, always will.
So what wold breaking up do?

i watch this channel to become a better man.
i know im not the best guy, but im not the worst.

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Posted January 18, 2009

aw how sweet i wish my bf wasnt selffish and cared about me the way you care about your gf.

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Posted January 18, 2009

to late now, its over...

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Posted December 11, 2008

Nooooo!! Don't break up with her if you don't want to! The best thing you can do is to show her that you áre serious. You're doing great ;)

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Posted December 11, 2008

That is the sweetest thing I have ever heard! Watching this for your girlfriend just made you the greatest guy! You're girlfriend is very lucky.

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Posted December 10, 2008

Fun advice like this is what I look forward to when the days are coming to an end :D

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Posted December 10, 2008

something about her voice makes me wander off when she talks... is it just me?

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Frederica Bimble Starting Over
Can't Relate - Posted August 17, 2009

No, I couldn't listen to the whole video either. Her voice is contrived.

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Posted December 10, 2008

hahah no its totally not just you. once i fell asleep listening to her. u kno theres a problem when someones voice can put u to sleep in under 2 mins...

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Posted December 10, 2008

i will never throw away my birkies

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Posted December 10, 2008

Haha I always love those pictures. This host is totally my favorite. Thanks for the video!

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Posted December 10, 2008

Any other advice to tell if he's serious?

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Posted December 10, 2008

i love the interesting pictures in the videos still!

:]

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