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He's having sex with someone else on Saturday

Meet the Polyamorists. Polyamory? Open Marriage? Multiple sex partners? Learn about them.

Meet the Polyamorists. Polyamory? Open Marriage? Multiple sex partners?

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Posted February 18, 2009

Polyamory; several loves.
A made up definition to somehow justify ADULTERY

Love is NOT sex, but then there is yet another justification to fornicate.

Adultery is adultery.
And God is not pleased.

Score: -3

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Posted August 29, 2008

I'm all for polyamory, but this guy's an idiot.

Score: 0
Posted August 18, 2008

But I think being jealous has a biological reason. So I understand people who want more sex experience, but some partner needs to be the important one, the one I share my life with. And other things should be more random, with less feelings involved.

Score: 1
Posted July 31, 2008

SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO aNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOYINGGGGGGGGG!

Score: 0
Posted July 28, 2008

fake,,, hired actors,,, damn did anyone noticed the interviewer's voice,,, she sounded like a dude...

Score: 0
Posted July 27, 2008

wow, what a bull of crap. That girl must be mental, not only for the sharing his views that she obviously seems not so comfortable with but also for hooking up with that a*****e. I mean how NON-attrative can you be? LMAO

Score: -2
Posted July 27, 2008

It's obvious that most of you have not met truly polyamorous people. The concept of polyamory is that you have the ability to love more than one person at once. That you have the open communication with your spouse/SO to share those feelings with them, and for them to accept them (for the most part). That you can have a loving committed RELATIONSHIP with more than one person. As I said before folks, for the truly polyamorous, sex is just the icing on the cake. The true focus is the relationship.

Score: 1
Posted July 26, 2008

this is sick.
she is totally into him. but must ignore it and play it cool because he insists on dating others.
he is just an egocentric prick that lives life to the max - ignoring the feelings of his ladies.
polyamorie is nothing but "shut up and let the guy do whatever he wants to do, when you're not around"...
this is not a new concept.
it's a new name for an old concept.
wanna know the original name of the concept?
- MARRIAGE.

Score: -1
Posted August 18, 2008

But if he finds a woman that wants to have sex with other guys, too? I don`t want such a relationship, but I understand people who live that way. It works like any other relationship: as long as it is fair and noone is hurt, it is alright.

Score: 0
Posted July 26, 2008

Wow, that dude is quite retarded. I could say that he has got a point, but no, he hasn't. Sounded for me just a cheap reason for getting too "experimental" in his life.

Great show, but this guy is quite a jerk.

Score: 0
Posted July 26, 2008

that is very wrong!! theres a word for that "adultery" jeez these people need help.why even be married or in a relationship it's ridiculous. what a douche bag!!! AHHHHH

Score: 0
Posted July 26, 2008

and do other people at the sametime...?? ugh. gross.

Score: 0
Posted July 26, 2008

lmao hahaha im pretty sure saying hes a polyamorist is just a "nice" way of saying hes a man whore who just wants to @#$% around. how can u TRUELY LOVE someone

Score: 0
Posted July 26, 2008

It is hard to believe how stupid the guy is.

Score: 0
Posted July 25, 2008

Wow, I am amazed at the stupidity of some people. They reckon having a different sized dick in their vagina every week will save their marriage. Having sex with multiple partners, the only difference is their structure, is ridiculous.

Score: -1
Posted July 25, 2008

That seems like a pretty stupid idea to me, but at least it will give the guys who don't know when to keep their pants on some false hope. I wonder if the man's other girlfriends know what he's been doing.

Horny little freaks...

Score: -1
Posted July 25, 2008

Not like there is any woman worth settling for.

Score: -1
Posted July 25, 2008

well, its true that ppl dont usually have sex after the relationship start falling apart, i for one always hate the though of once you get married, you never have sex. Somethin else has to happen between the wedding day, and the no sex, that is causing no sex. either communication break down, strain on the marriage, ect. But this guy, very douche-baggish

Score: 0
Posted July 25, 2008

and ANOTHER THING.
if she says she's not "fulfilled" in her marriage then her husband deffinetly deserves better than her, rather than trying to "accept her direction" and i hope he divorces her.

Score: 0
Posted July 25, 2008

OMFG. that's called ADULTERY.
that is so RIDICULOUS.
why the ! even be married or in a relationship if you just want to fk around with other people?!
this pisses me off.

Score: -1
Posted July 25, 2008

God, what is this world coming to?

Score: -1
Posted July 25, 2008

Dont worry, dozens of new STD's are popping up in the USA every year. I'm sure this dick head will catche one of them.

Score: -1
Posted July 25, 2008

yea he is horrible

Score: 0
Posted July 25, 2008

The biggest reasons couples break up is becausse of money. Spending it, earning it, devide it... I

Score: 0

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