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16 Things You Hate About Your Body That Men Love [EXPERT]
According to Dr. Erica Goodstone, many men secretly love women's feet.

16 Things You Hate About Your Body That Men Love [EXPERT]

Featuring advice from Julie Spira, Erica Goodstone, Larissa Rzemienski & Katherine Forsythe!

Hate your hips? Whether they are too flabby, too bony, too narrow, too wide or otherwise unpleasant to your eyes, chances are most men find them attractive. Women waste an immeasurable amount of time sweating about body parts that men find sexy in any number of states. Check out this list to find out why you should learn to love your so-called flaws after all.

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Guys apparently believe chicks wear red because they are looking to score.

Men Think Women In Red Dresses Will Have Sex On The First Date

According to science, men are more likely to find women in red easy.

Psychologists at the University of South Brittany in France studied a group of 120 males (ages 18-21). The men were shown a 20-year-old woman (wearing different colored t-shirts) and asked to rate her attractiveness and how likely she would have sex on a first date.

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Does too much porn make men unresponsive to real sex?

What Guys Think Links: Does Porn Make Men Dumb?

Plus, how to keep him from cheating.

How to keep (most) guys from cheating. How to make dirty talk not awful. Some info about Cinco de Mayo. What first-date faux pas should women cut out, dudes? Porn can lead to un-horniness? Love advice from Lou Ferrigno. Clingy men. Men are more interested in cuddling than ladies. Guys shouldn't call everyone "bro."

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Ne Yo and Jennifer Hudson in "Think Like a Man."

Does 'Think Like A Man' Deserve A 'New York Times' Review?

"Think Like a Man" is expected to come in number one at the box office this weekend.

It's a little curious that none of the newspaper's three major movie critics reviewed 'Think Like a Man' in their weekly movie review roundups published Thursday.

8 Things Baseball Can Teach Us About Love
Baseball seasons starts tonight.

8 Things Baseball Can Teach Us About Love

Baseball season starts tonight, and there are a few things sackers can teach us about love.

Whew. The Major League Baseball season is opening up today* and not a moment too soon, as the college basketball season came to a close a scant 36 hours ago and life would be awful if we just had the NBA and NHL to glance at over the rim of a pint glass.

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What sex position do most men love?

The Latest Stats On Cheating & Men's Favorite Sex Positions

More juicy sex and cheating stats from "Esquire" magazine's survey of men.

'Esquire' magazine recently conducted a survey of American men, ages 21-59, on why, where, and when they're having sex. Most shocking to me was the cheating statistic. One-third of men in committed relationships have cheated? Come on.

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What American men can learn about sex from their Parisian counterparts.

What American Men Can Learn From French Men About Sex

Angry Single Blogger is in Paris, where the men are a bit more upfront about what they want.

Ah! Here I am in Paris, my loves! I thought for the sake of my heart and sanity, I'd do an apartment swap with a woman here for a month and let the healing from my recent breakup begin. And it has begun… I think.

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Think Esquire's newsstand sales went up this month?

SEX! Sofia Vergara! Now That We Have Your Attention...

Esquire's annual sex survey reveals that one-third of men in relationships have cheated, and more...

Men never cease to surprise me. No matter how often I write about trends in male sex preferences, cheating and other relationship-related news, the latest and greatest surveys always seem to throw a giant wrench in whatever conclusions my previous research had established. This year's annual Esquire sex survey is no different.

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Men love brunettes in red dresses. Science says so.

14 Things Men Love, According To Science

Men's turn-ons include the color red, cuddling, boobs and pumpkin pie. Fascinating.

I had a good chuckle over Made Man's list of Things Science Says Women Love. Apparently we are all suckers for homosexual men who look like our dads and don't smile. Thanks, science! Oh, the image I'm conjuring right now is unsettling. Anyhow … I felt inspired to roundup a few of the things science says men love.

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Is revenge cheating acceptable?

What Guys Think Links: Should You Cheat On A Cheater?

Plus, love tips from The Hunger Games.

Who is your favorite "Hunger Games" character? What does Don Draper look for in a lady? A lady gets a wedding do-over. Postponing a wedding for a lizard. Taking a porn actress to the prom. Bachelor party must-haves. Is paying for sex always wrong? Is revenge cheating okay? What if you're more sexual than your guy? What do guys really think about after having sex? Saying goodbye really hurts. And, how to let him/her down easy.

5 Super-Honest Dating Tips (From Men!)
It's not all hearts and flowers when it comes to dating advice from men.

5 Super-Honest Dating Tips (From Men!)

Men tell it like it is when it comes to dating.

Dating can be kind of mystifying — it's so hard to know how to do it right. Everywhere you turn, it's "we promise you'll meet the man of your dreams," and "the TRUE dating secrets revealed." Everyone wants to tell you what to do.