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Do As I Say, Not As I Do

Do As I Say, Not As I Do

How, given our shortcomings, do we teach our kids right from wrong so they’ll actually listen?

When was the last time you preached to your kids about abstaining from behaviors in which you personally engage? None of us is completely innocent when it comes to the adage, “practice what you preach”, and I don’t believe our kids expect us to be. The question is how, given our own shortcomings, do we teach our kids right from wrong so that they’ll actually listen, and at the same time view us as humans worthy of respect? I’ve found the following steps effective in dealing with this dilemma:  

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Having a family to care for makes it easier to battle depression.

'Put On A Happy Face': How I Manage Depression As A Wife And Mom

Depression makes me want to stay in bed and cry—but being a wife and mother helps me to get up.

Whether or not researchers have Blue Monday (this year, today, January 13) pinned accurately as the most depressing day of the year, the winter months can be a particularly challenging time for those who struggle with depression. The cold weather, holidays and reduced daylight hours are enough to make anyone feel a little bit sad. But depression is so much more than just feeling sad. Depression is sadness and it’s hopelessness, fear, a paralyzing sense that this is how you’re going to feel forever, that this misery is never going to go away, things won’t get better. Then there’s the guilt: the guilt that comes from feeling like you’re failing everyone around you. Like you should be able to snap out of this and come back to life. Feeling like you’re letting everybody down.

My Boyfriend's Parents Had A Bad Marriage; Are We Next?
My Boyfriend's Parents Had A Bad Marriage; Are We Next?

My Boyfriend's Parents Had A Bad Marriage; Are We Next? [VIDEO]

How to break the relationship cycles of our parents and become successful in love.

As we grow up, there are many things about our parents that we hope we can inherit: maybe it's your dad's sense of humor and your mother's legs. On the other hand, there are also aspects of them that we hope to leave in their generation (that quick temper? No need to pass that down, thanks). 5 Things To Notice When Meeting His Parents That's why it's worrisome when you witness your parents' bad habits when it comes their relationship. It makes you wonder, "Is that going to be in ten years when I'm married to someone?"

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Whether or not to take your husband's last name is a highly personal choice.

Engaged Girl: To Take His Last Name Or Not To Take His Last Name?

Half of Americans think women should be legally required to take their husbands' last names.

As an engaged woman, I was both surprised and appalled when I read an article on The Stir stating that 50% of Americans believe it should be legally required for a woman to take her husband's last name. My first thought was: Who took this survey anyway, a bunch of people from Middle-of-Nowhere America (no offense, really) who've been completely cut off from the modern world?

Three Ways To Help Someone Addicted To Prescription Drugs

Three Ways To Help Someone Addicted To Prescription Drugs

Prescription Drug Addiction is becoming more prevalent and affecting many families today.

Did you know that two million Americans are dependent on or abusing prescription painkillers?  That being said, we need to redefine what an addict looks like today.  It could be that businesswoman who appears confident and ambitious or that man who owns the local real estate agency.

new years 2012
Guess what most singles wished for this holiday season.

What Would You Rather Start In 2012: A New Job Or Relationship?

Plus, would you ever lie to your family about your relationship (or lack thereof) status?

Who needs a job when you have love? Granted, love isn't going to pay the bills, but if you believe every love song ever written and every romantic comedy to grace the silver screen, then love is the most important thing of all. Whatever helps you sleep at night…

holiday fight
Avoid a fight with your husband over his family.

How To Avoid The Family Drama This Year [EXPERT]

Does your relationship suffer at holiday time due to family tussles?

The holidays are ripe for unearthing family dramas, often featuring a popular story line about competing loyalties. Though there are variations on the plot, the focus here will be on this dynamic as it plays out with men and their mothers.

christmas gifts
Happy holidays!

10 Perfect Last-Minute Holiday Gifts For Your Man's Family

Spending the holidays with his parents? Here are some gift ideas that are sure to impress them.

When you're meeting your significant other's family for the first time during the holidays, the pressure can be on to bring something memorable — in a good way.

10 Tips To Survive The Holidays [EXPERT]
The 10 best ways to avoid a fight with your dysfunctional family!

10 Tips To Survive The Holidays [EXPERT]

How to cope when your family's latent dysfunction decides to pop up under the Christmas tree!

You don't have to be Scrooge to hate Christmas. In "A Christmas Carol" we learn that Ebenezer Scrooge used to be a nice boy who became bitter through parental neglect and brittle by his emotional dependence on his sister, who abandoned him by dying. Poor guy. He was the sad product of a dysfunctional family.

HOLIDAY SEX-SAVER:Keeping the Spark Alive when Family's Underfoot

HOLIDAY SEX-SAVER:Keeping the Spark Alive when Family's Underfoot

Yes, You Can Still Have a Hot Holiday Season When the Family Comes Calling.

Holidays are prime time for out-of-town family to show up on your doorstep – or for you to appear on theirs. You might think that sharing space with mom, dad, or siblings will put quite a damper on your sex-life, but it actually doesn’t have to cramp your style. In fact, those “walls with ears” can even set the scene for a hotter happy holiday. Here's how.

busy mom
Juggling kids and an at-home job can be a challenge.

Being A Work-At-Home Mom Ain't Easy

The struggles of working from home with kids.

The working mom vs. stay at home mom debate is one that has gone on for decades. As a work-at-home mom, or WAHM, I lie somewhere in the middle. And while I am very thankful for this, I also want it to be said: WAHMing ain't easy.