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The Dos and Don'ts of Getting a Date

The Dos and Don'ts of Getting a Date

It's an age old dilemma: if I don't know how to get a date, how can I actually get one?

While we all may know one smooth natural at the art of dating, it’s a challenge for the vast majority. I know, I’ve been there myself. The key is learning specific skills and techniques to minimize your stress and ensure your success! Here are a few critical tips:  

Don't be this guy on Valentine's Day.

Don't be this guy on Valentine's Day.

True stories of Valentine's gifts gone wrong.

Eddie and Kristen went to college together and had been dating for a couple of years. They both lived on campus but were heading back to visit Eddie’s family for the weekend to celebrate his dad’s 50th birthday. It happened to be Valentine’s Day weekend, so when Eddie arrived to pick Kristen up, he brought her a gift. It was the newest, trendiest Valentine’s gift, flowers inside a balloon. It was all the craze at the mall. And Kristen loved it. The balloon was clear with white flowers printed on it, and inside were red roses.

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It's hard to read men's minds -- but we can give it a good try.

10 Signs Your Guy Is Definitely In Love With You

If only we could peek into the minds of our boyfriends and see what they really think of us.

Sometimes, we simply have to guess at what our significant other is thinking, which can be particularly difficult at the start of a relationship when you're just getting to know each other.

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Heal your heart by breaking these unhealthy relationship patterns.

10 Unhealthy Relationship Patterns (And How To Break Them!)

Need some tough-love advice on your miserable dating life? Read on.

If you feel like you missed the class that taught everything you needed to know about dating and you just can't make these things called relationships work, you may be stuck in some unhealthy romantic patterns.

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Are you ready for a happier relationship?

Relationship Rehab: 12 Steps To Becoming A Happier Couple In 2012

Your 12-step program to a better, healthier relationship.

The best way to have a happy relationship is to keep working on it, so even if you're not in a relationship rut, follow these 12 tips from our staff and you'll keep being happy!

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My boyfriend just wasted a huge amount of my time. Help.

"We Picked Out An Engagement Ring... Then He Changed His Mind"

After five years together, my boyfriend still won't propose to me. Should I just give up?

I'm a 27-year-old female, and I've been with my 31-year-old boyfriend for over five years now. About a year ago we started talking seriously about getting engaged within the next six months, but by the time fall rolled around, my boyfriend told me that though he loves me and wants nothing more than a future with me, he was just not ready for an engagement yet.

6 Signs That He's 'Mr. Boyfriend Material' [EXPERT]
You deserve a man who will make you happy and meet your needs!

6 Signs That He's 'Mr. Boyfriend Material' [EXPERT]

Here's how to know if he's the right one for a long term relationship!

With the start of 2012, it’s time for New Year’s resolutions and new beginnings. It might also be the perfect time to set some goals for your love life and learn how to identify the kind of man you want to date. I like to call him Mr. Boyfriend Material. Like you, Mr. Boyfriend Material dates with dignity and is interested in finding a partner who is confident, independent, and has the skills necessary to communicate in MANglish.

Help! My Boyfriend Doesn't Want To Spend New Year's With Me!
Aren't you meant to spend New Year's with people you love?

Help! My Boyfriend Doesn't Want To Spend New Year's With Me!

My boyfriend is being very sketchy about New Year's Eve plans. What should I do?

Last New Year's I spent with my boyfriend at home. It wasn't much of a party, but I didn't really mind. I've asked him if he's coming over this year, but he "doesn't know" -- he might go out with his friends.

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Happy holidays!

10 Perfect Last-Minute Holiday Gifts For Your Man's Family

Spending the holidays with his parents? Here are some gift ideas that are sure to impress them.

When you're meeting your significant other's family for the first time during the holidays, the pressure can be on to bring something memorable — in a good way.

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Sometimes his gift speaks louder than words.

12 Holiday Gifts & What They Say About Your Relationship

What his Christmas or Chanukah gift says about your relationship.

Asking yourself the eternal where-do-we-stand question? His Christmas/Chanukah gift can give you clues to how he feels about your relationship.

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Someone needs to wean himself.

Does He Have Mommy Issues?

He talks about her often. In fact, we have a lot in common.

I was talking to a relationship counselor about some of the guys I've dated, and she was particularly interested in the one who seemed, on paper, the most different from me. "I was very comfortable with him. I could be myself around him. The day-to-day things were easy. We liked the same music. We drank the same beer. Our interests and lifestyles were very similar. We both volunteered. We were both close with our families. I got along with his brother." None of this seemed alarming or interesting to the counselor.