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How To Tell When She's Just Not That Into You

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Always busy? Gossiping about you to her friends? She's just not that into you.

Guys can be just as clueless as women when it comes to reading the signs, especially since women have their own set of subtle brush-off techniques. After countless boring dates and awkward interactions, we've decided to let you studs in on our secrets. We've cut through the BS and compiled the signs that she's just not that into you. The Frisky: 15 Signs You're Just Friends

1. Message in A Message. You call her, you leave a voicemail, and she texts you back. If she really wanted to reach out and touch someone, she would have rung you.

2. Conflict of Interests. Sure, everyone has a busy schedule, but it's the quality of the excuse that counts. If it's, "I have to clean my apartment," she doesn't want to get dirty with you.

3. Private Eyes. Whether you're having dinner for two or getting down on the dance floor, if she's not looking at you, she's not looking for you.

4. Please. You're generous in the sack. She doesn't return the favor. That's the only clue you need.

5. Easy Access. At a party, if she's talking to Joe Schmo and Wendy Whatsherface more than she's chatting with you, you're nothing special to her. The Frisky: "My Guy Friend Wants To Sleep With Me"