I was chatting to a client the other day. Suddenly his faced turned serious and he asked me, “David, sometimes when a woman goes down on me I can’t get hard. Has it ever happened to you? What’s going on with me?” I laughed and said, “Yep, it’s happened to me a lot of times.” I asked him what women have said when it’s happened to him.
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This article was written by Chiara Laurie for Kinkly.com. Have you ever had a sexual partner go down on you, only to emerge from under the sheets five seconds later, gasping for air? OK, so maybe that’s a bit dramatic ... and if anyone's actually done that to you - well, you might just be sleeping with an insensitive jerk.
Don't you think it's kind of funny how we expect ourselves and our partners to just magically “know” where our sexual sweet spots are? Especially because chances are, no one has ever taught us about our own "pleasure anatomy," much less how to communicate, stimulate, and bring pleasure to others.
We all know men love blow jobs. But, knowing how to do them right is something women have struggled to master. I am going to give you a few tips on giving a great blow job to keep your man happy and keep running back for more. I have always been a fan of the blow job, but I do have an oral fixation so it has come naturally to me and to a lot of other women that have oral fixations, which normally makes it easier for them to master as well. I like to do them especially in the morning, because most men have morning hard ons and not enough time to go with full on sex.
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Okay, gentlemen, in order to answer this question, you first need to know if the woman you are in a relationship with, whether it is a serious relationship, a friends-with-benefits arrangement, or a booty call, likes oral sex. Some women do not like oral sex at all, for whatever reason. If this is the case, try to find out why. She could have gone through something traumatic or been taught that it is just plain wrong, had a bad experience with it, never had it done, or had it done badly.
Call me creepy, call me weird, call me crazy, but whenever I meet a guy, I always have the curiosity to ask them about what may seem like the grossest and most uncomfortable thing in the world: the oral sex question. How often do you give your girlfriend oral sex? Surprisingly, about 85 percent of the guys I've asked this question of say either they would only do it if a. they were drunk b. they were on drugs c. they receive it first