I've cheated on boyfriends. Three of them. One of them knew, and two of them never found out. When I talk about my cheating phase with friends, I make it sound like I've learned my lesson, and that I'll never do it again. And for the most part, I have. But I also know that I'm easily tempted.
This is something I should probably discuss with a therapist — as well as a significant other, when that situation presents itself — but for right now, I can honestly say that I can’t promise I won't cheat again. That said, I also can't tell you whether your girlfriend will cheat or her reasons for cheating in the past. What I can tell you is what went through my head when I cheated ... and why I kept doing it.
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