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The Three "Friends" That Will Destroy Your Marriage
Oh don't be silly, he's just a friend...

The Three "Friends" That Will Destroy Your Marriage

It's good to have lots of friends, but it's better to have friend that are good for your marriage.

We all have different viewpoints of the boundaries in relationships. For some it may be flirting, but for the others the boundaries extend furher beyond that. This is why friendships between opposite genders, especially when one is in a relationship can be tricky to handle. When is it just friendship and when is it something more?

7 Secrets To Mastering Communication  Secret #5 Ask Questions

7 Secrets To Mastering Communication Secret #5 Ask Questions

Are you guilty of being a conversation hijacker? You are if you're committing these errors!

Welcome back to 7 Secrets To Mastering Communication SECRET #5 – Asking Questions  Asking questions is a major key to mastering communication. Yet, so often most conversations are a battle for air-time with one person ending up shutting down when the other has done what I call the one-upmanship stunt and taken over the topic. Whether it’s casual bantering or expressing important concerns, hijacking a conversation is rarely conducive to enhancing your relationships over time.

what not to do if you're caught cheating
One deadly mistake: denying that it happened.

What You Shouldn't Do If You're Caught Cheating

You cheated. You got caught. Now what?

When my husband caught me having an affair, I only made matters worse by not taking responsibility for my own actions. So if you've been caught having an affair by your partner or you're even considering it, avoid making any of these five mistakes.

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Do you compare your sex life to that of your friends?

Are Your Friends Having More Sex Than You?

A study finds that we worry too much about keeping up with the Joneses' sex lives.

A new study from the University of Colorado, Boulder found that having more sex makes us happy, but thinking we are having more sex than other people makes us even happier.

She Wants To Be More Than ‘Friends With Benefits’

She Wants To Be More Than ‘Friends With Benefits’

Casual sex was fine at first, but now she wants more. Trouble is, he doesn't. What's a girl to do?

Question: I am fairly young, 23, and I've been hooking up with this guy for 7 months now.  When we started hooking up he stated that he didn’t want a girlfriend, and he still feels the same way. Recently I told him that I was developing feelings for him. To protect me from getting hurt he decided that we should end things, saying that he didn’t want to hurt me in the long run (which he believed was inevitable).  Knowing that he said that and that he was capable of doing such a hurtful thing,

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What kind of girlfriend are you?

What It Takes To Be A Great Girlfriend

Fifteen tips to make him glad he's all yours.

Every relationship we have — even if it does not end in marital bliss — is a learning experience. Through trial and error, I have discovered what it takes to be a fantastic girlfriend.

The Pros & Cons Of Your Time On Facebook

The Pros & Cons Of Your Time On Facebook

Evaluate your Facebook time. Does it make you feel happy and connected, or sad and lonely?

For every Facebook article extolling its virtues, there’s another that warns of its dire social consequences. Do we feel validated by our social media friends, or devastated by them? Does Facebook increase our loneliness, or help us feel connected? The key to determining whether you’re on-line too much or need more face-time is to consider how you use social media, and how you experience the consequences.

Online Dating Dilemma: Why Haven't They Texted Me?

Online Dating Dilemma: Why Haven't They Texted Me?

You've made a connection but now there's no communication. Wondering why? These answers might help.

The truth is you never know and in some cases you never know the answers to the many “why” questions that are associated with online dating. The difference between online dating and meeting someone at a bar is the personal interaction which instantly develops a relationship. When you meet someone online you are simply a number until the first meeting.  So when someone never texts you but will always respond when you text, when someone just randomly stops responding after weeks of great conversation, and when someone blows off your plans three or four times… You si

Oversharing: DON'T Give Him Something To Talk About

Oversharing: DON'T Give Him Something To Talk About

Don't let excitement or nervousness get the best of you. Avoid oversharing on your first date.

It happens. You are excited, eager and giddy to meet this potential special someone. You are mentally saying his last name after yours to see if it has a certain ring to it. You've already named your first pet and planned your first trip together - and this is all during appetizers. 

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The mother-daughter bond is unlike any other.

An Open Letter To My Teenage Daughter About Friendship

Three pieces of advice I wish I'd known when I was her age.

My daughter is in her first year of high school and navigating the world of girl drama, boyfriends and school dances. As painful as it can be to watch her suffer through some of this, I want her to know a few things that I wish I'd known at her age.

Ten Places for Singles to Watch The Academy Awards

Ten Places for Singles to Watch The Academy Awards

It's the biggest night of the year in Hollywood and you are invited to watch - plus one not required

The Academy Awards are right around the corner. If you are a movie buff, a celebrity watcher or a fashion gawker, this is prime time to sit back, relax and enjoy the show.  This is also a good time to mingle and be social. If you are looking for something to do to make Sunday's show a little more festive, check out this list of places to watch with other cinephiles like yourself. The events range from free to premium prices. Be sure to check before you go and RSVP, if required.