Anger Management

Years in Practice

25 Years


Escondido CA 92025 - United States



Additional Expertise

Counselor/Therapist, Marriage Educator, Mediator, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner

I Practice in

All areas, please inquire



I Believe

Is your relationship crazy-making? Second-guessing yourself all the time? At each other way too often? Let's work together to get the insights & skills you need to take your next best steps. Strengthen, deepen & enrich your emotional intimacy.

About Rhoberta Shaler, PhD The Relationship Help Doctor

Rhoberta Shaler, PhD
The Relationship Help Doctor
Urgent & Ongoing Care for Couples & Singles

Relationship Consultant, Speaker & Author

Creator of Coupleology™: The Learnable Art of Healthy Relationships & Kaizen For Couples™
Author of sixteen books


As a marriage counselor and couples counselor, I'll help you to gather the insights, understanding and new approaches to love more fully, engage more positively, and collaborate more genuinely to create healthy, strong, committed relationships. 

You really can use what is happening in your most difficult moments together to learn, grow and move towards greater emotional intimacy. It's true. Really!

Whether you are in a committed relationship or are planning to be, I'll work with you to consciously create the emotional intimacy that warms your heart and continues to grow as you walk together. We’ll work together to uncover the viability of your relationship: how to improve its health or facilitate its passing.

But wait! There's more...

As a counselor/therapist, Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, offers urgent and ongoing care for couples globally. She has been working with people struggling with life, death, and relationship for over thirty years in the United States and Canada. She has brought hope, comfort, strength, and success to countless people who honestly believed it was impossible.

Creator of Coupleology: The Learnable Art of Healthy Relationship, Dr. Shaler calms the turbulence of troubled relationships, and creates the insights, skills and space for new beginnings and positive re-connections. She offers the insights and pattern-breaking skills that lead to blame-free, game-free, non-manipulative relationships at home and at work.

Her  fifteenth book, Kaizen For Couples: Smart Steps to Save, Sustain & Strengthen Your Relationship, is the summary of a lifetime of insights developed from working with real people confronting the real life challenges of living and loving together. It offers workable solutions to twenty-first century relationship issues and a new proven model for creating and living the loving relationship you most want. Her latest book, The Hijackal Trap: Loving Someone Who SHOVES You Away Yet DEMANDS That You Stay, is now available as an ebook, providing strategies for living or working with passive-aggressive behaviors. The whole book will be in print and ebook in February, 2016. . 

Vist www.ForRelationshipHelp.com  Subscribe to her newsletter & podcast: Vital Tips For Relationships, too.


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