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Rhoberta Shaler, PhD The Relationship Help Doctor, Marriage/Couples Counselor

Rhoberta Shaler, PhD The Relationship Help Doctor - Marriage/Couples Counselor, Author, Consultant, Counselor/Therapist, Marriage Educator, Mediator, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter - Escondido, CA

Marriage/Couples Counselor

The Optimize Center, 350 W. 9th Avenue, Suite 101
Escondido, CA
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As the Relationship Help Doctor, I provide urgent and ongoing care for couples. When things feel rocky, distant, broken, or even hopeless, I'll help you recognize and take the smart ...

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Rhoberta Shaler, PhD
The Relationship Help Doctor
Urgent & Ongoing Care for Couples

As the Relationship Help Doctor, I'll help you to gather the insights, understanding and new approaches to love more fully, engage more positively, and collaborate more genuinely to create healthy, strong committed relationships.

Whether you are in a committed relationship or are planning to be, I'll work with you to consciously create the emotional intimacy that warms your heart and continues to grow as you walk together.

AND, if you are wondering if your current relationship has the signs and symptoms of health, or is seriously in need of treatment, start with my free Relationship Checklist  or the free Passive-Aggressive Checklist. We’ll work together to uncover the viability of your relationship: how to improve its health or facilitate its passing.

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Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor, makes it easier to talk about difficult things and manage difficult relationships. With more than twenty years of experience, she offers her clients the relationship skills, insights and alignment strategies to engage positively or disengage peacefully. 

Founder of The Optimize Institute & Optimize Center, she focuses on counseling, mediation, anger management and parenting classes, and relationship seminars to empower individuals, couples, families, leaders and teams with solutions and skills that get to the heart of communication, conflict and conscious collaboration. She offers her services in-person and online through Skype® and Google+.

Dr. Shaler is the author of over two dozen books, ebooks and audio programs, including KAIZEN FOR COUPLES: Smart Steps to Save, Sustain & Strengthen Your Relationship and Wrestling Rhinos: Conquering Conflict in the Wilds of Work and 




The Reason I Became A Helping Professional

I have been helping individuals, couples, families and workplace teams improve their relationships for more than twenty-five years. Until we get professional relationship help--insights, skills, aha moments, strategies, solutions, support--we operate from what we have learned from our life to date. That is unlikely to create the amazing, emotionally intimate relationships we all long for. So, why I enjoy spending days with folks is because it makes a huge positive difference in the possibilities for them, exercising love, sowing peace and optimizing life.

Whether a couple needs to uncover ways to engage more positively or skills to disengage peacefully, I want to be there to help them do it well! 


Time in Practice25 years +
I practice inAll areas, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseAuthor
Marriage Educator
Relationship Coach
I offer my servicesAt my office
By Email
Via Skype
Via a webcam
Other, please inquire
I am fluent inEnglish
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Kaizen for Couples: Smart Steps to Save, Sustain & Strengthen Your Relationship

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Stop! That's Crazy-Making! How to Quit Playing the Passive-Aggressive Game

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Soul Solitude: Taking Time for Our Souls to Catch Up

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Optimize Your Day! Practical Wisdom for Optimal Living

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