If you are going to be a true naughty girl and live the naughty lifestyle, you have to be comfortable with your naked body. Being able to appreciate your body and be comfortable in your own skin is a mark of someone who has confidence. Naughty girls are definitely confident!
There are certainly challenges to being able to be comfortable naked. Unrealistic portrayals of women’s bodies on magazine covers and other media sources give the idea that everyone must have a perfect body in order to be beautiful. But true beauty is not airbrushed or edited. In fact, no matter how you look, there is something so sexy and sensual about being naked by yourself and with your lover.
If you have been uncomfortable in the past about being naked, either alone or with a lover, it is time to move into your future. A future of naked bliss. Start slow if that is what you need. Each day when you are home, try gradually reducing the amount of clothing you wear while you go about your business. Eventually you will be down to your bra and panties and you can lose them one at a time if that makes you more comfortable.
Once you are down to your birthday suit, start doing different things while you are naked. Try eating naked, watching television naked, or just reading a book naked. This may seem strange or uncomfortable at first, but the more time you spend doing stuff naked the more comfortable you will feel in your own skin.
An easy way to break the ice is to sleep naked. It is amazing to be between the sheets while nude. Feeling the sheets against your skin with nothing in between you is freedom. After a while, pajamas feel confining and you will never go back to them. How many times have you woken up with your nightgown twisted around your body? Enjoy the different tactile sensations on your skin from different kinds of sheets. Flannel when it is cold, can feel comforting and snug, while cotton in the summer can feel cool. To feel really sensual and sexy, try silk or satin sheets and enjoy how smooth they feel against you. Sleeping naked next to a lover is a true pleasure and expression of intimacy. It also makes sex more convenient when he wakes up in the morning with that morning missile erection. Just climb on it and enjoy!
Remember lighting is everything. The harsh glare of florescent lights is enough to encourage anyone to keep their clothes on. Try candles, or better yet, install dimmer switches. They give you more control over the lighting because you can adjust to your comfort level. They are available at any hardware store and aren’t expensive, so what’s stopping you?
When you have reached the point where you are comfortable being naked in your own home, it is time to take your nakedness on the road. When you go to the gym, do you change in the locker room in front of people or do you seek out a part of the locker room where there are no other women? Perhaps you go into a bathroom stall to change? Many women avoid taking their clothes off in a locker room or spa if other people are within viewing range. If this sounds like you, then the next step in being comfortable with your naked self is to change your clothes where other people are. There is no need to seek out the deep recesses of the locker room so you won’t be seen. Change your clothes, sit on the bench, or take a steam all without hiding. If others appear uncomfortable, remember it is their own discomfort with nudity in general that is the issue, not you or your nudity. Diversity is beautiful and while all women have the same parts, the diversity in how these parts look is what makes us all special.
When you have done all these things and have reveled in your nakedness, it is time for the big test: being naked in front of a lover. You may think this is a given considering people have sex that way, but many people go to great lengths to hide their body, even from their lover. Some even keep some of their clothes on during sex. If you know someone well enough to let them penetrate different orifices on your body, then you should be able to get naked with them. One thing to remember is that men are not judging you or making a mental list of what you perceive as your body flaws while they are lying naked with you. They are usually just so damn grateful to have a naked woman in bed with them that they are not noticing anything else. Men love women with curves and they want to see it all—so show it off. Leave the lights on. Use the dimmer switch or candles if you want to. They allow him to see you but keep the mood sensual and romantic.
If you want to really throw your lover for a loop and give him a nice surprise, have breakfast together naked the next morning. Whether at the table or in bed, naked breakfast is the most important meal of the day.
The truth is, we all have something about our bodies that we don’t like. However, people tend to look at body image as glass half empty and see only flaws. Instead try looking at yourself naked in a mirror and finding one thing about yourself that you like. Don’t use this exercise as an excuse to criticize yourself. Instead, see it as empowering and a way to learn to love yourself.
It is time to get over your fears of being naked and shake off the shackles of negativity towards your body. Your body is yours. You can love it or you can hate, it but it is the only one you have for this lifetime. It makes the journey through life more pleasant if you like it. No more excuses. Just get naked now!
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