Did you know that it is possible to have an accidental orgasm without being involved in a sexual activity? This actually may be more common than you may think. It is extremely possible to orgasm by accident when doing ordinary activities, even if it is not sexualized at all. If this has happened to you, do not feel like you are abnormal. It's a totally natural phenomenon.
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Why They Happen...
Accidental orgasms happen because there is friction along the sensitive area of the vulva. This may be attributed to many different types of activities that overall may be affected by light or constant stimulation in the sensitive area of your vulva. You should not be ashamed or embarrassed if you have an accidental orgasm because that is exactly what it is - an accident.
You cannot help if there is a certain rubbing sensation when you are doing ordinary tasks that just happen to hit the right spot. When you have an accidental orgasm, it does not mean that you have developed a fetish or that you were mentally turned on. It can happen purely for physical reasons. It is just something that is prone to happen with those who have more sensitive vulvas. This may happen once with ordinary activity, or over and over. Regardless, an accidental orgasm cannot be expected or anticipated, and there is no use trying to avoid them.
Reasons Accidental Orgasms May Occur
Accidental orgasms may occur for many different reasons. First, I'm going to talk about the science behind orgasms to give you a good idea of what is happening when an orgasm occurs...
Usually reaching orgasm is the main goal of an individual in sexual situations. However, in the case of accidental orgasms, it might not always be appropriate or wanted. An orgasm is defined as a “sudden movement, spasm, contraction, or convulsion… a surge of sexual excitement” it is further defined as “an explosive discharge of neuromuscular tensions at the height of sexual arousal that is usually accompanied by vaginal contractions in the female”. The most relatable definition of an orgasm is from D. Alfred Kinsey, who once said that an orgasm “can be likened to the crescendo, climax, and sudden stillness achieved by an orchestra of human emotions… an explosion of tensions, and to sneezing”.
The key part of this definition is it’s the orgasms similarity to sneezing. Sneezing is the perfect metaphor to an accidental orgasm, because it is a sudden and unexpected act that also has an intense, though brief, sensation. This is the most apt way to describe an accidental orgasm.
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