The 3 Best Places To Meet Quality Single Women
You're looking for love in all the wrong places.
getty Men, let's have a short talk. What exactly do you expect when you say you want to "meet single women"? A lot of us will just say that men are looking for girls who are without other commitments and willing to have some fun.
This really sounds right if you ask any guy, but should men really think of it that way if they really want to meet single women? If you want to know where to meet women you want to start dating, try these three places:
1. Out and about
There are a lot of ways to meet single women. Sometimes, you can just leave your home and find a single lady out there just strolling about. This, however, does not mean she is also interested in looking for a partner. She could just be running an errand to the corner store for her partner for all you know.
You can always try this approach, but don't expect to meet the girl of your dreams right away. There is a 50/50 chance.
2. Bars and clubs
Another option is to go to places where lonely hearts frequent — bars and clubs. If you are on the hunt and come upon a great bar, you will have better chances of meeting single women there.
The beauty of this technique is that most of the time, single women who hang out at bars are the types that are actually looking for potential partners. More often than not, they're not just there to hang out and watch the view.
The only drawback here is quality control. You can't really be sure of who you meet in a bar or club, and we all know that quality is everything.
3. Online matchmaking
The best option to meet single women is through a matchmaking service. Not only is it easy and fast, but it also eliminates all the other concerns. Think about it: You're meeting somebody who is deemed to be a perfect match for you in terms of interests, values, and priorities.
You have to think about it this way: If you're looking for single women who are in for the long haul, they will be looking for some qualities too. Professional matchmakers easily filter out women who they might like and those who really won't make the cut.
So, what should you expect from women you can meet from a matchmaking service? Think: women who are intelligent, funny, and utterly attractive. Their only flaw, if you consider it to be, is maybe the lack of knowledge and/or time to meet new people.
Don't worry, though. You're using the matchmaking service for the very same reason. Plus, given women are really proactive in their search for love, matchmaking services often have a flood of women for you to choose from — gorgeous, high-quality women.
Rest assured, the person they will refer will most likely be a person who will be in tune with the music of your life — somebody you can really have fun with. You will enjoy your time with the single woman you are paired up with.
Samantha Jayne is a relationship expert and advisor to Channel 10's "The Bachelor." She's written books, courses and is regularly interviewed by the media globally on talk back radio, magazines, TV and online.