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Are you the spanker and the spankee?

As part of research for our video, The Pleasure Mechanics Guide to Erotic Spanking, we spoke with hundreds of men and women. They all agree: a few good spanks can set your sex life on fire, even if you consider yourself to be pretty conservative in the bedroom.

Maybe you like some hard smacks during rough sex or maybe a gentle massage is just enough to get your cheeks in gear, but erotic spanking is a huge turn-on.

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Here's why: the butt is a hot erogenous zone. The pelvic muscles are some of the most important in the human body for overall posture, movement and comfort. Most of us have chronic tension in our butts that needs to be relaxed, so spanking is an effective form of massage (one of our favorite kinds of massage, we have a whole DVD on the topic). With each spank, a wave ripples through the muscle and bounces off the bones. This stimulates your genitals, floods your pelvis with fresh blood flow and fires off all of the nerve endings with every impact—making sex more intense, more vivid, more arousing. Keep reading...

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