Bondage Basics For Better Sex

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Sex: Want To Be Free? Get Tied Down First
Discover the sexual benefits of erotic bondage - no rough sex or risk required!

Have you ever fantasized about erotic bondage? Imagined yourself being lovingly tied up and then ravished? If so, you are not alone! Bondage is one of the most common sexual fantasies for both men and women alike, and with good reason! Bondage is risky, dangerous, and really sexy!

At PleasureMechanics.com we believe that you can enjoy all the thrills of more daring sex while minimizing the risk to your body and your relationship. That's why we created our erotic spanking video and our guide to having a successful threesome. If you follow our guidance, you can have exciting erotic adventures without all the risk! We believe the same thing about bondage: you can easily enjoy the thrills of erotic bondage without going to extremes.

Curious about the erotic benefits of bondage? Read on!

Bondage Brings Erotic Freedom: It is one of the sexy ironies of bondage that being tied up can make you feel incredibly free. Many people crave the release of being restrained, with nowhere to go and nothing to do other than receive their lover's touch. Once you are cuffed, your mind can turn off and all of your focus turns to the sensations in your body. If you are stressed out, tense and overburdened, the escape of a few hours as an erotic captive can be sweet release. Pair bondage with the physical intensity of erotic spanking, and you have a recipe for profound relaxation and tremendous pleasure!

Bondage Goes Beyond Handcuffs: The most common image when it comes to bondage is a pair of metal handcuffs. Unless you get really turned on by playing cops and robbers, handcuffs are not the best choice for bondage. In our podcast on Bondage Basics for Better Sex, we cover four great alternatives for restraining your lover, without risking injury or the embarrassment of losing the key to your lover's handcuffs! There are excellent options for bondage that offer safe, sensual restraints. Explore leather cuffs, satin ties (but NOT silk scarves!), bondage tape and even something originally designed for horses! Full details in the podcast!

Bondage Creates Vulnerability & Trust: When you consent to being tied up by your lover, you are expressing complete trust. Nothing is more vulnerable than being restrained, unable to escape. To willingly choose this experience is a powerful expression of trust! We recommend only playing with erotic bondage with someone you trust completely. Never try bondage on the first date! Bondage is one of the many sexual experiences that gets better as you deepen trust over time with your lover. When you trust your lover so much that you can give yourself over to their touch, relaxing completely in your restraints, you can experience true physical vulnerability: a pure aphrodisiac!

Bondage Heightens Sensuality: Have you ever slipped on a blindfold and felt your sense of touch grow way more sensitive? The same thing happens with bondage. Once you are firmly restrained, all sensations are heightened and amplified. Your lover's touch becomes electric! Of course, bondage and blindfolds go very well together. But even without a blindfold, bondage creates delicious sensuality. Some people even love the combination of bondage and massage! You don't have to like rough sex to love bondage. Bondage can be gentle, sensual and purely pleasurable!

Bondage Unleashes Your Erotic Animal: All too often, we keep our sex lives way too polite. At the core, we are animals, and sex can be a fun way of expressing your more bestial nature. Bondage gives you the opportunity to get a little more wild in bed. Once you are fully restrained, you can tug and pull at your bondage, safely expressing your feisty side. Many people love this aspect of erotic bondage - the invitation to struggle and be pleasured at the same time. Sounds fun? Bondage may be for you!

Ready to explore your bondage fantasies? Grab your copy of B is for Bondage, an erotic short story from the Fantasy A-Z Series. Want to learn more about how bondage can enhance your sex life? Listen in to our free podcast episode, Bondage Basics for Better Sex!

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