There are lots of myths about dating, sex and relationships. One you may have heard is that it's too late for you to find love. Well, we are here to tell you that regardless of your age, the mistakes you have made in the past or how long you have been seeking a relationship, love will always be available to you.
We hear from people all the time who tell us that we are "lucky" to have found each other. But believe me, if you heard our stories and all the mistakes we made in relationships along the way, you wouldn't consider us lucky. We often joke that we became relationship experts because between the two of us, we've made nearly every mistake possible when it comes to love.
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However, we both took an intentional path to create the spiritual partnership that we have today. Long before we knew each other, we let go of limiting beliefs about love, and the release of those beliefs allowed us to see the other in a new light. We had been attending the same business networking meeting once a month for over a year before we even spoke to each other.
Creating love on purpose is not about where you are, but who you are. Stop looking for places to find good men, or spiritual men or women who aren't superficial, and start paying close attention to what is going on inside of you that affects the choices you make every day.
Here's how you can create love in your life at any age:
1. Release the past. You have to create space for your beloved. The space must exist in your thoughts and in your heart. If you are hung up on emotional pain from the past or you're pining away for the "one that got away," there is simply no room for your beloved. So forgive yourself, forgive the other person, bless them and move on!
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