19 Principles to Banish Love Life Misery Forever

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I wanted to share this excellent article with you written by non other than the mystic twins ( I kid you not, that is their handle. After living the last 20 or so years of my love life, I have come to the very same conclusions. It wasn't an easy process reaching this place inside myself of non attachment but I do honestly believe that we are all on different love lines. That some learn from one and some learn from many. Each soul your journey with shapes and shines the diamond that is you a little bit more. It is hard at time when things come to an end but before you know the cycle is turning over a new leaf and we are presented with the next reflection of ourselves. Is the person who falls in love and stays married for 60 some odd years any better off than the person who has loved and cared for 60 some odd people over the course of a lifetime? - no one can answer that. What is important is that we set our intent on loving whoever we are with. When your intent is to learn to love, you are willing to face your fears and feel your painful feelings in order to understand how you may be creating them and discover what you need to do differently. Who we do this with is not important - what is important is the remembrance of our own divinity. So please enjoy these principles as I must say I agree them

Most people are conditioned from a young age
by fairytales, movies, and TV to have certain
expectations about how their love life should be.
Unfortunately, many of these are traps that set
one up for disappointment or worse.

These traps repeatedly trip up even the most
intelligent and otherwise successful people. You
can choose to opt-out of them and make the most
of your love life, whether you are single or involved.
Even by perceiving your love life from a different
perspective, you will drastically reduce stress and
heartache.

1) “The love of my life.” Accept that you don't
know who the love of your life is until the last day of
your life.

You no longer need to worry about whether someone
is the (only) love of your life. Even if someone isn’t
the main love of your life, it doesn’t need to diminish
the importance of the bond since each one is for
different purposes.

2) “My soul mate.” The myth that everyone has only
one soul mate, if you happen to believe in the concept
of soul mates, causes plenty of problems. Metaphysical
research has shown that everyone has many soul
mates. Of course, some are much more compatible
than others, and it’s not always obvious at first.

You no longer need to worry about if you have found
or will find “the” soul mate.

Instead, accept that we all have many soul mates, allow
each connection to be what it’s meant to be, and enjoy
them for what they are.

3) "I should meet my soul mate/spouse/partner
by age 25 (or 30 or 40 or whatever age)." It would
be nice if you could just apply for and receive your soul
mate at a certain age, much like you do a driver's
license. The reality is that some people are meant to
meet a more compatible person or people early in life,
and some must have a little more patience.

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