Dating Coach: How Can I Find Love Before 2013 Ends?

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Dating Coach: How Can I Find Love Before 2013 Ends?
You're at the end of 2013 and you're wondering "How can I find love before 2013 runs out on me?"

If this is what you are facing right now, then finding a soulmate should be your priority. But there are things at play that you are probably not aware of; these things are distracting you and preventing you from achieving your goal for 2013.

How Can I Find Love if I Don't Know My Hurdles?

This is the real question you should be asking yourself. Yes, you are putting the hurdles for yourself—no one else is responsible for that. Find out the real reason why love is not showing up in your life. There are three major things that could be blocking the Law of Attraction for Love from working in your favor:

Hurdle #1: Lack of Time or Apparent Lack of Interest

You are not allocating time for love to come because of your lack of time and lack of attention. You've been so busy that finding a girlfriend or boyfriend got put in the back burner of your life's hectic schedule. In fact, you might have even missed opportunities that came knocking, in the form of people asking you out. If you go on like this, the Universe will simply think you aren't available for love. Then, the worst will happen: even the people who do show an interest in you will stop showing up. You have to take the time to explore your options because finding a soulmate is an "anytime, anyplace" kind of phenomenon.

Hurdle #2: Fear is the Lock, Faith is the Key

You are living in fear because you are afraid that someone similar to your ex will show up—an abuser, cheater, liar and so on.  Well, guess what: if you are thinking of that all the time, you will attract the same kind of person once again because you have been focusing too much on such characteristics.

Another problem is that you could be having such a good time dating that you don't want to move to the next stage. You may have not identified exactly what you wanted in a relationship so you keep on dating whoever is available. It is the fear of the unknown that makes to run again and again to the familiar.

Either way, the Universe will believe that you are having a grand time dating so that is what you will end up doing for the rest of your life—just dating.

The only way to overcome these two fears is through faith—faith that the Law of Attraction for Love is even now bringing your soulmate ever closer to you.

Hurdle #3: Finding Faults Attracts Faults

In your process of finding a girlfriend or boyfriend, if you keep on finding fault with the person you are dating—too old, to fat, too short, too cheap and the list goes on—then you have to realize one thing: every time you point out what is wrong with someone, you are attracting more of that in your life.

Your only reason for finding faults in other people could be that you are focusing on what you don't want in order to hide the fact that you really don't know what you do want.

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Lorii Abela

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If you have been wondering how you can TURN YOUR LIGHT ON, WOW AND ENCHANT YOUR SOULMATE into entering your life, you are getting close to some answers. Lorii Abela is your Soulmate Expert. To start the year with a bang, find out how can you find love in 2014. Call now at (312) 235-2688 for a free 15 minutes consultation or contact us at http://manifestingmydestiny.com/contact/

 

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