Articles by Date Coach Christian Anderson
“I believe all women, at least one time in their lives, have been carrying emotional baggage from past relationships or for future ‘I want him to be my boyfriend’ kind of men…. I believe the greatest achievement of mine, from the time we first started working together with Christian, is the fact that back then I was guessing more and knowing less…. now I know more and guess less in my life!
My goal is to be happy, every moment… for now and the future. Having a man in my life is merely about someone who I would allow to share my happiness with! The road might take me down to many paths… some of them leading to dead ends, some of them leading to other paths…. but I’ve come to realize that…it’s not about how the road ends, it’s all about what you experience in your trip…
Christian provided the right questions and I provided the courage of implementation and learning. Yes..! It takes openness and willingness to change and try new things, no matter how minor or important they are to you. Sometimes I must admit I wasn’t really sure how this was going to help me find what I was looking for…. but I was convinced that if I would have stayed where I was, I had zero chances to find it as opposed to trying something different no matter how difficult or uncomfortable it felt….
With Christian, I discovered that I’m no longer afraid to surrender to the unknown…. and that feeling is…freedom from everything that has been holding me back…
Thanks coach, this journey feels amazing and is definitely one of a kind!!!”
“Dating used to be tough. I used to over analyze everything. Then Christian made me realize how simple guys are. I realized what I was doing wrong and with the help of Christian I was able to change my life, well at least the dating part, around! Thanks xoxoxoxoxo”
- Rhonda S. Los Angeles
“Angels work through Christian and anyone fortunate to receive his advise will be blessed. Christian gave me solid advise while I was dating a guy who was pressuring me to have sex with him. I knew I wanted to be in a relationship, but I wasn’t sure if I wanted to be with this guy so I was still feeling our relationship out before we took it to the next level…. After listening to Christian, and putting his principals in to play, I learned soon after that the man I was dating was NOT “boyfriend” material. His advise saved me from getting into a really bad situation with a guy I wasn’t even into in the first place! Dating is so tough, especially when you’re looking for a long term relationship, and Christian has the wisdom to steer any lonely heart into the right direction of everlasting love.”
-Sara W. San Diego
“I first contacted Christian when the guy I was dating started to pull away. After listening to my story, Christian gave me a whole new approach to the situation. He told me that this guy was “renting the girlfriend” by acting like my boyfriend when he wanted and then disappearing when he was “busy”, that I should stop being so available / nice to him and that I should let him pursue me. I was pretty impressed by Christian’s approach as it totally made sense and none of my friends or even myself thought about that earlier.
Then, a few months later, I contacted Christian again to do the SPARK package on 30 days. We focused on ATTRACT as my goals for this journey were to become more approachable and to be able to go talk and flirt with any guy I would be interested in. On the first session, Christian gave me a set of tools to develop and use my feminine energy to attract men. We also talk about the kind of guy I want and where I could find him. Then we went together in public places so I could practice on strangers. This definitely gave me more confidence to go talk to guys. I kept practicing talking to strangers in between the sessions and after only 10 days I thought “Christian changed my life!”: guys were coming to talk directly to me and not to my friends, I was flirting with men and getting some numbers and even my best friend was amazed about how more confident and more approachable I became in only a few weeks!
This month of coaching with Christian has been a great experience and I’m definitely going to keep using what I’ve learned in order to find the guy I want.”
Adeline B., San Francisco